Friday, January 10, 2020

2019 memorials

Usually, at the end of the year, I might comment on those who passed away.  I didn't have the time to do so at the end of 2019. But I decide to do so now.

Of course, I won't be able to write about every person with a dose of fame, especially if I don't know much about them.

I already wrote about the following

Dick Tomey
https://pablowegesend.blogspot.com/2019/05/in-memory-of-dick-tomey-1938-2019.html


Nipsey Hussle & John Singleton
https://pablowegesend.blogspot.com/2019/05/nipsey-hussle-john-singleton.html





Now for a few more



Ross Perot

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Ross Perot

Ross Perot was an eccentric entrepreneur who later ran for president (sounds familiar).

Perot gained his billions by buying one of the early entrepreneurs in the computer industry. He started Electronic Data Systems in 1962, and then Perot Systems in the 1980s.

In 1992, Perot ran for US president as an independent candidate. His campaign focused on eliminating the national debt and against trade deals that he felt would put the US at a disadvantage.

While he wasn't part of the major political parties, he did have more than enough money to fund infomercials to promote his campaign. Many people were fascinated by his use of charts to describe national problems and how to solve them

He did drop out  & later re-entered the presidential race, making many people suspicious about how dedicated he really was to become president.

However, he was able to enter the presidential debates against the incumbent George H.W. Bush and Bill Clinton.

Perot was able to get 19% of the popular vote, a lot more than most minor-party candidates usually get. However, it wasn't enough, and Bill Clinton ultimately won the election.

In 1996, Ross Perot ran for president again. Unfortunately, he wasn't invited to debate the major party candidates (Bill Clinton & Bob Dole) and only got 8% of the popular vote!

1992 was the last time that candidates from other political parties were ever allowed to debate the Democrat & Republican nominees for president.  This is a national tragedy in that people don't get a chance to hear those from "third parties" challenge the major party candidates on their positions.   The major political parties are afraid of someone being inspired by Ross Perot and humiliating the major party politicians on national TV, so they avoid debates with what they consider "inferior beings" from the outside.

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Ross Perot died from leukemia in July 2019


David Koch

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David Koch


David Koch, along with his brother Charles Koch, are known as the Koch Brothers, the oil company executives who gave millions to political causes.

The Koch Brothers are usually considered "conservatives", but they are really more aligned with libertarians. In fact, David Koch attempted to become the Libertarian Party nominee for president in 1980.

They sided with Republicans on lowering taxes, reducing regulations on businesses, and were openly skeptical towards global warming (this earned them major hostility from the Radical Left).

However, the Koch Brothers also sided with more liberal causes like criminal justice reform, drug decriminalization and a more lenient immigration policy (this really alienated them from the Republican Party since Trump took over).

Outside of politics, the Koch Brothers also gave millions to the arts &  medical research. 

Charles Koch was able to survive prostate cancer for 27 years until he passed away in August 2019. 



Toni Morrison

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Toni Morrison
                                            
Toni Morrison was a prominent author, editor & professor.

Her writings focused on various aspects of African-American life and dealt with the harsh realities of slavery, racism and sexual abuse.

Her most popular novel Beloved won a Pulitzer Prize and was adapted into a movie featuring Oprah Winfrey and Danny Glover.

In 1993, Morrison became the first African-American women to win a Nobel Prize for Literature.

Morrison did get some controversy when she stated in 1998 that Bill Clinton was "America's first black president" due to his popularity with the African-American community as well as his life story associated with various stereotypes of African-Americans (single mother, poverty, jazz, his fried foods diet). Obviously, this offended many people.  Ten years later, the USA elected an actual African-American person as president - Barack Obama!  Obama later awarded Morrison with the Presidential Medal of Freedom

Morrison passed away in August 2019 due to pneumonia



Robert Mugabe



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Robert Mugabe

He was a rebel fighting for the rights of the indigenous people of Zimbabwe when it was a British colony of Rhodesia.

White domination of Zimbabwe ended in 1979. There was much hope when Mugabe became the first black president of Zimbabwe.

However, white oppression was replaced by black oppression under Mugabe's reign of terror.  While much of the Western world's attention focused on European-descendants being victimized by Mugabe's lynch mobs, the majority of his victims were other indigenous Africans.

This was such a huge contrast to Nelson Mandela in neighboring South Africa. While Mandela was bold in his fight against the apartheid regime, when he took power, he advocated racial & ethnic reconciliation even when others weren't in the mood for it.  He also refused to run for re-election because he truly believed that South Africa was best served by a peaceful transfer of power instead of having a ruler of life.

When Mandela was released from imprisonment, many European South Africans feared he was going to be the next Robert Mugabe.  He wasn't! 


I compared Nelson Mandela & Robert Mugabe   in previous blog posts 
https://pablowegesend.blogspot.com/2019/02/yesterdays-victims-can-be-tomorrows.html https://pablowegesend.blogspot.com/2013/12/nelson-mandela.html


Other articles on Robert Mugabe and his reign of terror

Lawrence Pintak, “I met Robert Mugabe in the late 1970s. What he told me still haunts me.,” Vox, September 6, 2019,
https://www.vox.com/world/2019/9/6/20853400/robert-mugabe-dead-zimbabwe-president-zanu-pf

Joseph Winter, “Robert Mugabe: From liberator to tyrant,” BBC, September 6, 2019
https://www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-27519044

Tricia Escobedo, David McKenzie, and Hilary Clarke, “Robert Mugabe, Who Once Said 'Only God' Could Ever Remove Him, Dies at 95,” CNN, September 6, 2019
https://www.cnn.com/2019/09/06/africa/robert-mugabe-intl-hnk/index.html

Nicholas Kristof, “If Only Mugabe Were White,” New York Times, June 28, 2008
https://www.nytimes.com/2008/06/29/opinion/29kristof.html?hp

Nicholas Kristof, “Looking Away from Mugabe's Tyranny,” New York Times, April 4, 2004
https://www.nytimes.com/2005/04/04/opinion/nicholas-d-kristof-looking-away-from-mugabes-tyranny.html


Robert Mugabe finally met his end in September 2019 due to cancer. He was in a Singapore hospital for treatment when he died. Meaning, after so many decades as ruler of Zimbabwe, he couldn't get one decent hospital in his own country that he trusted to save his life. 



Cokie Roberts



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Cokie Roberts

Cokie Roberts was one of the pioneers among women working in political journalism back in the 1960s & 1970's. She worked with various local TV stations around the country, and then with NPR.

She later became a  co-host of ABC's political talk show "This Week". She also wrote many articles on the political scene.

While working with mostly liberal-dominated stations, she was known to be fair when dealing with Republicans. 

Bobby Allyn and Scott Neuman, “Cokie Roberts, Pioneering Journalist Who Helped Shape Npr, Dies at 75,” National Public Radio, September 17, 2019, https://www.npr.org/2019/09/17/761050916/cokie-roberts-pioneering-female-journalist-who-helped-shape-npr-dies-at-75



Political journalist George Will, who worked with Roberts on ABC's This Week, said Roberts was not just born to the political class but was a natural inhabitant. 
"She liked people on both sides of the aisle and had friends on both sides of the aisle," Will told NPR. "If you don't like the game of politics, I don't see how you write about it well," he said. "She liked the game of politics and she understood that it was a game."

However, she was unsparing in her criticism of Donald Trump when he ran for president. 
"[Trump] is one of the least qualified candidates ever to make a serious run for the presidency," Roberts and her husband wrote. "If he is nominated by a major party — let alone elected — the reputation of the United States would suffer a devastating blow around the world."
Learn more at

Karma Allen, Meghan Keneally, and Nancy Gabriner, “Legendary Journalist and Political Commentator Cokie Roberts Dies at 75,” ABC News, September 17, 2019, https://abcnews.go.com/US/legendary-journalist-political-commentator-cokie-roberts-dies-75/story?id=65633507.


John Conyers


US Congress
John Conyers


John Conyers was a long-time Congressman from Michigan and one of the co-founders of the Congressional Black Caucus.

He was an advocate of civil rights legislation, introduced a bill to have a holiday honoring Martin Luther King, pushed for sanctions against South Africa's apartheid regime and defended the rights of Muslims.

While he was very woke on racial justice, he wasn't so woke in his dealings with women. His career ended with the #metoo movement taking note of his various sexual harassment allegations.  

  Learn more at 

Melissa Nann Burke and Gregg Krupa, “John Conyers, Longest-Serving Black Member of Congress in History, Dies,” Detroit News, October 27, 2019, https://www.detroitnews.com/story/news/local/michigan/2019/10/27/john-conyers-obituary/2908410002/.


Elijah Cummings

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Elijah Cummings


Cummings was another longtime legislature and a member of the Congressional Black Caucus.

Cummings had his first dibs in civil rights activism when he was 11, when he & his friends worked to integrate a swimming pool in Baltimore. He later majored in political science and was a student government president at Howard University. He spent 13 years in the state assembly, and 23 years in the U.S. House of Representatives. 


More recently, Elijah Cummings advocated for the impeachment of Donald Trump.  Trump hit back by noting the rat-infested buildings in Cumming's Baltimore district. However, one of the slumlords operating there happened to be Jared Kushner, Trump's son-in-law & senior advisor. 

Matthew Rozsa, “Kushner properties under renewed scrutiny after Trump calls Baltimore a 'rodent infested mess',” Salon, July 29, 2019,
https://www.salon.com/2019/07/29/kushner-properties-under-renewed-scrutiny-after-trump-calls-baltimore-a-rodent-infested-mess/



 It turns out that Jared Kushner, the president's son-in-law who works alongside the commander-in-chief at the White House, owns property in the Maryland city with a history of actual rodent problems, according to a pair of investigations.
"It is certainly ironic that the president’s own son-in-law was complicit in contributing to some of the neglect that the president purports to be so concerned about," Baltimore County Executive John A. Olszewski Jr. told the Washington Post on Saturday.


Trump, being a person who wants to have it both ways, gave a very insincere tribute to Elijah Cummings when he died. 

There is a more sincere tribute from a  Republican, Trey Gowdy, who worked with Elijah Cummings in Congress

Trey Gowdy, “Elijah cummings and I were political opponents. We were also good friends.,” Washington Post, October 10, 2019,
https://www.washingtonpost.com/outlook/2019/10/18/elijah-cummings-i-were-political-opponents-we-were-also-good-friends/



There are more than a few YouTube videos of Elijah and me disagreeing with each other over the years. Unfortunately, there are no videos capturing his calls of encouragement to me. Or of me pushing him in his wheelchair — he would have done the same for me — because I wanted to talk with him while we walked. Or of Elijah going out of his way to encourage a member of my staff because he knew what it was like to be a young professional of color; because his desire to see her succeed exceeded any and every political difference they may have had.
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Our life experiences were different. Our political beliefs could not have been more different. We disagreed on most issues, from how to address gun violence to which questions are appropriately asked during a decennial census. We both had a passion for criminal justice reform, but even when we agreed on the destination, we frequently had different paths to get there. He championed “ban the box” legislation, while I thought there was a different route to giving people a second chance. The political environment we served in together could not have been more challenging: the Benghazi hearings, the Fast and Furious hearings and hearings surrounding the 2016 election. Our committee assignments and respective leadership teams seemed to thrust us into almost every contentious issue facing Congress. Yet we never had a cross word outside of a committee room during the years we served together.
To the contrary, I had genuine affection for Elijah, and I admired the path he took, over the course of his life, rising to become a leader in Congress. 


Don Imus

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Don Imus


A long-time talk radio host well known for his outrageous remarks.  He basically insulted everyone left & right


examples noted at
Emmett Tyrrell, “Don Imus, Rip,” Townhall, January 2, 2020 https://townhall.com/columnists/emmetttyrrell/2020/01/02/don-imus-rip-n2558811

But what lead to his downfall was in 2007 when talking about the NCAA women's basketball championship game, he referred to Rutger's team as "nappy headed ho's". This ignited a major controversy intersecting both race and gender. Don Imus was fired and became a social outcast.

I blogged about the controversy back in 2007
https://pablowegesend.blogspot.com/2007/04/who-are-you-calling-ho.html

more on Imus

Lorraine Wheat, “Hollywood Sends Mixed Reactions On the Death of Don Imus,” Variety, December 27, 2019
https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/hollywood-sends-mixed-reactions-death-014754423.html




Gershon Kingsley



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Gershon Kingsley


Gerson Kingsley was an innovator of electronic music.


Kingsley spent his childhood as a Jewish refugee during WW2, going from Germany to Israel, Cuba and the United States.

In the 1960s, he was one of the early users of the new invention, the Moog synthesizer.   With it, he made one of the earliest electronic music hits "Baroque Hoedown" and "Popcorn".  This was years before Kraftwerk took electronic music to a whole other level! 

Kinglsey also composed movie scores, operas & more.

Kingsley died on December 2019 at the age of 97.


learn more at
Jon Pareles, “Gershon Kingsley, Master of Electronic Sounds, Dies at 97,” New York Times, December 15, 2019,
https://www.nytimes.com/2019/12/15/obituaries/gershon-kingsley-dead.html/

Dick Dale


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Dick Dale

Dick Dale was a guitarist whose music was the soundtrack of many surf videos.  He used the musical influences of Lebanon (where his family was from) and applied it to his electric guitar to make an amazing sound. 

His most famous instrumental was Misirlou, a mainstay of surf rock that was later used in "Pulp Fiction" and sampled by the Black Eyed Peas "Pump It" and Lil Nas X & Cardi B's "Rodeo".

Dale died in March 2019 of kidney disease

Otis Hart and Anastasia Tsioulcas, “Dick Dale, Surf Guitar Legend, Dead at 81,” National Public Radio, March 18, 2019,
https://www.npr.org/2019/03/18/704329806/dick-dale-surf-guitar-legend-dead-at-81


Keith Flint

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Keith Flint

Keith Flint was the lead singer for the electronic music group The Prodigy (not to be confused with the deceased member of Mobb Deep). 

The group The Prodigy mixed electronic music with alternative rock to make an even crazier & wilder sound.

They hit their peak in 1997 with their hits "Firestarter" and "Breath" (the video for that song will gross you out with rats & roaches in an apartment). They also got major controversy over their song "Smack My B---- Up".

Keith Flint later had his own punk rock band Flint.

In March 2019, Keith Flint was found dead from hanging in his own home.

Otis Hart, “Keith Flint, Vocalist of the Prodigy, Dies at 49,” National Public Radio, March 4, 2019,
https://www.npr.org/2019/03/04/699974575/keith-flint-vocalist-of-techno-popularizers-the-prodigy-dead-at-49



Bushwick Bill


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Bushwick Bill

Bushwick Bill was a member of the Geto Boys, a Houston rap trio that were the pioneers in Southern reality rap who paved the way for future hitmakers like Master P, Three 6 Mafia, Trick Daddy & more.

In a rap world in which the big & strong usually get the most status, Bushwick Bill was very short, shorter than most rappers who call themselves "Lil". He was 3 feet 8 inches tall. 

Don't let his size fool you, the people who were around him will tell you crazy stories about him not being afraid of getting into fights.

Decades of drug use took its toll. It is believed his heavy drinking led to him dying of pancreatic cancer in June 2019

Sidney Madden, “Bushwick Bill, of Houston Rap Group Geto Boys, Dead at 52,” National Public Radio, June 10, 2019,
https://www.npr.org/2019/06/10/731076691/bushwick-bill-of-houston-rap-group-geto-boys-dead-at-52


Juice WRLD 

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JuiceWRLD

Jarad Anthony Higgins (aka Juice WRLD) was a rapper/singer who merged the influences of emo & reality rap, a combination that is popular among today's youth.


Juice WRLD first gained attention on the music sharing website Soundcloud and eventually gained mainstream popularity in 2018 with his major hit "Lucid Dreams", which sampled Sting's "Shape of My Heart". 

He also had some other hits the last 2 years like "Armed & Dangerous", "Hide", "Legends" (tribute to other emo rappers who died before him xxxTentacion & Lil Peep)  and a collabo w/Ellie Goulding "Hate Me".

Juice WRLD was only 21 when died of a drug-induced epileptic seizure at an airport on December 8, 2019

Anastasia Tsioulcas, “Rapper Juice Wrld Has Died at Age 21,” National Public Radio, December 8, 2019,  https://www.npr.org/2019/12/08/786064628/reports-rapper-juice-wrld-dead-at-age-21


Sunday, January 05, 2020

response to an online chump who thinks I'm from somewhere else

Every  year around New Year's, local news media post articles on social media about the problems associated with fireworks, and a common response is 

  • fireworks is a local tradition
  • only "da haoles" want to get rid of fireworks.

Um, actually, the local regulations on fireworks are implemented by the state legislature and city council in which THE MAJORITY are locals of Non-European ancestries! 

You can't blame "The White Man" for everything!

I usually respond to those posts by reminding everyone that fireworks aren't really a local tradition because they didn't exist in Hawaii before Captain Cook.


here's a link to a comment thread I commented on


Joey Iaela thinks he had a classic response to me! He was wrong.

Here is what he said

Joey Iaela Pablo Wegesend Why are you in opposition, just curious, I did notice you moved here from the states. I took notice you know my daughter in-law [name deleted to protect an innocent bystander]. With no disrespect to anyone's.comment. I did respond to a lady, she moved here from the states and she complained to everyone. This is how we celebrate the New Year, year after year. We post our fireworks display for. FB friends, then we have people, that take up residency here, want to change our means and ways. Shoo go away!!! Or even better no comment on the post, go to City Hall and complain to them! This is my response to the negative comments you made about tradition. You kept contradicting our beliefs, and your point is..??? Have a good year!


Excuse me? You claim to have "noticed" that I "moved here from the states"   (note: this is code word for "you're from the continental US)

Really?

Because my parents sure didn't notice that I "moved here from the states".

Because I was born in Hawaii. Never lived anywhere else!

In other words, Joey Iaela stereotyped me!


I responded with a huge barrage of comments that Joey Iaela is too cowardly to acknowledge!


Here I go!

  • Pablo Wegesend Joey Iaela I only lived in Hawaii, never lived anywhere else! Don't tell me where I'm from! And yes, some local people have different opinions from you! You have your right to express your opinion, I have my right to express my opinion!

  • Pablo Wegesend Joey Iaela I'm curious, why did you assume I'm from somewhere else? Because of my name? Because I have the nerve to express an opinion different from you and your friends? You think everyone from here has to have the same opinion as you?

  • Pablo Wegesend One more thing, Yes I know your daughter in law. I know she'll be laughing at you when she finds out you made the stereotypical assumption about me being from somewhere else!

  • Pablo Wegesend But I guess some people just assume that everyone from a specific location is supposed to have the same perspective!

  • Pablo Wegesend But the fact remains: fireworks is an imported activity, saying that is stating facts regardless of where you from!

  • Pablo Wegesend I have real respect for real local traditions like hula, surfing, luaus and more. Nobody is taking that away from you!

  • Pablo Wegesend joey claims to have "noticed" that I "moved here from the states". In other words, Joey Iaela notices things that never happened. That's called hallucination!
Pablo Wegesend still no response from Joey Iaela! I know he read my responses, but has no decency to even apologize for stereotyping me and making false assumptions about where I'm from!

This 30-second video has WAY TOO MUCH reality for Joey Iaela to handle



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QkTwrsD4OSU





Joey Iaela, next time you want to sling mud at people, know your target! Otherwise, they'll sling it back at you harder than you'll ever believe!





Wednesday, January 01, 2020

2020 is here

I'm old enough to remember when 2000 was considered "The Future"

Now that year is 20 years old!  The students I currently work with weren't even born yet!

As for me, I was born in 1980. So that means I lived 20 years in the 20th century, and now I have lived 20 years in the 21st century.  Half of my life in both centuries.

This year, I will turn 40. Another major milestone. Not sure exactly how I'll celebrate it. I have ideas, but not ready to go public with them.


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I started the year celebrating at Haus Supper Club, a new nightclub located at Ala Moana Shopping Center.  The staff was wonderful, the music was great for most of the night. However, the dance floor was too tiny for the crowd that was there. 

I did advertise the event to my friends, they had other plans. I made my plan and sticked with it!  No regrets, no hard feelings. 

The highlight was when I was approached by a former classmate from high school. Actually, she graduated a year before me. We haven't communicated since then until last night.

The music slowed down circa 3am (the event was advertised to be up to 4am) and it was still crowded, I just left for the night!


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I am currently working at a middle school library as an assistant.

Part of me wants to stick around, but another part wants another library position that comes with higher pay. The question becomes when & where? I'm very picky about locations. But if an opportunity comes up in a great location, I would jump to it. Stay tuned! 


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Still volunteering with the Friends of the Library of Hawaii. I help them every First Friday at Books@Mark's, as well as their annual booksales

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Pablo the Mad Tiger Warrior plans to release an instrumental album of slow relaxing music. 

The songs are done. I'm still waiting on distribution plans. Stay tuned! 



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Rents gone up! Bus pass costs might go up (waiting for the city council on that one)! 

Hopefully, the union-negotiated contract gets approved this month so that my pay goes up!


With that, I could rely less on credit and pay off some debts. Last year, some loans been paid off. Time to get more paid off! 

Tuesday, December 31, 2019

2019 year in review

Another old year is coming to an end!

This year came with a lot of milestones and high's and low's!

It's time to explore them all!



1) Finally started a full-time library position


In 2012, I decided to work towards becoming a full-time library worker and applied to UH-Manoa's Library & Information Science (LIS) program. I started classes in 2013 and graduated in 2015. That followed by more years of job applications, rejections, and depressions.

At the start of this year, I finally started a full-time library position at a local public middle school.  So basically, now that this year is ending, I can finally put in one year of full-time library work on my resume.  That should help me find another library position that comes with higher pay. 

I like doing things to help organize our library's collections. Organizing shelves is what I consider fun.

 We are currently in the weeding process (withdrawing older books) while also adding some new books to the collection. The books leaving outnumber the books coming in!  Some shelves have already been moved out, with more to possibly go!

 We at the library also organize the classroom textbooks for the school, which has its own challenges as it requires more communication with more stakeholders. 

We are fortunate to have student volunteers who help out before school, morning & lunch recess and after school.  These student volunteers give me hope for the future.  :)

As for communication from staff, let's just say it's a work in progress. So many different personalities to deal with! 

This job comes with a consistent monthly salary,  union representation & benefits (ie. insurance plans, retirement savings).  Something I've been waiting for a long time. 

Hawaii's public schools have a 10-month staff (only work when classes are in session) and 12-month staff (year-round). I am a 12-month staff member! I work during school vacations. I actually love it because I love being on campus when hardly anyone is around. Peace & quiet, and I get more time to organize stuff!  I didn't take an actual vacation, but I did request vacation-time off for New Year's Eve. It got approved!  :) 


2) Less time for other stuff


Now that I have a full-time, year-round position, I have less time for other stuff.

For example, this year, I only had 30 blog posts (including this one).

Last year, I had 58 blog posts. In 2013, I had 79 blog posts. For most years, I have above 50 blog posts.

There's much I was interested in blogging about, but I didn't have time.

In past years, I did an annual music-in-review blog post. Last year, I had a blog post with short memorials for some well-known people who passed away. No time for that this year. 

I only did a few YouTube videos this year!

But I did end this year, with a video about how popping fireworks is a waste of time & resources.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PR3OSKX55JM

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I also had less time to do some house cleaning. In the past, when I was a substitute teacher, on the days I don't get called to work, I would spend more time dusting shelves & throwing out accumulated junk.

Well, this past weekend, I did a lot of dusting  & vacuuming!  
And earlier today, I threw out some accumulated junk as well as dusted under the fridge.  Tomorrow, on New Year's Day, I plan to at organize some of the stuff I keep.

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As for my music, I did make more instrumental tracks and finished up what I planned to be my next album. The next album will be more of an easy listening album, a huge contrast to my previous album which was filled with experimental heavy metal instrumentals. 

I was actually planning to have it released this year. However, time constraints delayed finishing it. That part is done. Now, it's financial constraints. I wanted this next album to have both digital distribution as well as physical CD manufacturing. You can both bundled with CD Baby's distribution plan. However, I'm still saving up for that!   For my previous album, I was able to pay for it when my credit line was increased. However, this year was about paying off old debts. 

Speaking of debts ..............


3) Paying off debts

Over the years, I accumulated debts.  This year, I focused on paying them off!  Two loans got paid off this year, but I still have to pay off another loan (a student loan, that will take a while) as well as pay off revolving credit with PayPal Credit.

This year, I plan to rely less on credit while continuing to pay off debts!

Easier said than done, but it is getting a little bit easier now that I have a full-time job with benefits.

It will probably be getting slightly easier if the new union-negotiated contract gets approved early January. 


4) Two-decade anniversaries

2019 is 20 years after 1999, a special year for me. 1999 was when I graduated from high school and started college.

We had our 20th-year high school reunion in late June, which I blogged about it at

Previous reunions had no drama, but this one did! As the 3rd part of that blog post noted, there was a conflict with Patsaya Mounthongdy, a drunk who hasn't matured since high school. It is excessively naive to think it's OK to "take the high road" and shrug off this situation. What we should've learned from the #metoo movement is that silence about jerks like him only makes the problems worse.

So I made this YouTube video addressing this situation


And not even 24 hours after the Patsaya incident, I met with my father to talk about the letter I wrote to my parents earlier that week. Basically, that letter was addressing some of the grudges I felt towards them, especially during my high school years. After discussing what I wrote in the letter, my father broke down in tears when discussing he tried his best to help our family. He then told me that back when I was a teenager, he didn't understand my grievances, but now he understood.  I broke down too, saying that I used to look up to him as a child, but that many things have gotten in the way over the years! We then hugged, as my father was ready to go home!

Learn more at 


In August, it was 2 decades since I started college at the University of Hawaii at Manoa.

I wrote this blog post about that time and how things have changed at the university (and my life and the world) since then



5) My grandmother

Earlier this year, I celebrated Mother's Day and my grandmother's  91st birthday at her unit. They were joyous occasions and we were confident there would be more.

However, only a few weeks after her birthday, my grandmother was in the hospital for irregular heartbeat. She remained there until she passed away on October 30.

I wrote a memorial blog post for her


I also wrote about her funeral here


6) Holiday season


We had our first Thanksgiving & Christmas without grandma. It took a while to get accustomed to that.  Grandma usually sat on a chair on one side of a table.  This time, we left that chair empty.

However, life does go on.  My brothers & nieces had very interesting discussions on Christmas. We had our brunch. And we watched the movie "Two Popes", a docudrama about the communications between Pope Benedict XVI and Pope Francis!

As for our family relations, ever since that conversation with dad about the letter during the summer and my grandmother's funeral, I have become more forgiving and more appreciative of my family.  

It could be a sign to a great start for 2020!