While I do write blog posts about certain life situations and do write facebook posts almost daily, that doesn't mean I am obligated to answer personal questions that are really none of your business.
I mean, I try to avoid asking the following questions to people
- how much money you make
- any questions about anyone's sex life
- any questions about traumatic events
And if I do ask those questions, and the person doesn't want to answer -- I stop asking about the subject!
and if someone doesn't answer certain questions .... Do NOT take that personal!
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Don't Kiss And Tell
This means DO NOT TALK ABOUT and DO NOT ANSWER ANY QUESTIONS about any sexual activities.
(only exception : if dealing with a health professional or any law enforcement or legal professional dealing with serious health and/or criminal cases)
Women are usually (but not always) sensitive to this! They don't like it when their boyfriends/lovers/one-night-stands/whatevers tell their friends about their sexual activities!
So if you take a groupie home, and your friends want to know more????? DO NOT TELL THEM ANYTHING! DO NOT ANSWER THEIR QUESTIONS!!!
I mean, I remember back in school days, when my friends tell me what girl they like, I NEVER TELL THEM what girl I like!
I mean, it's none of your damn business! Figure out it yourself!!
And plus, when I found out this guy like this girl...........oh shizz, I was making fun of the whole situation!
I didn't want to be made fun out of (by people who act like me), so I said NOTHING when someone ask "what girl you like?" I was too smart to fall into that trap!
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The Game is to be sold Not to be Told
90's era hip-hop fans might remember that phrase from the title of Snoop Dogg's album that came out in 1998. That was the album he did when he joined the No Limit family and worked with Master P!
The phrase "The Game is to be sold, Not to be Told" mean you sell an idea but YOU DON'T TELL THE DETAILS.
That was supposed to originate with the drug dealing business, but it applies to all businesses. Especially your personal business!
You sell the idea, let the people figure out the details for themselves!
I might post a few party photos on facebook, but I'm NOT telling the details. In other words, I'm selling the party life, not telling the details. I'm selling the game, not telling the game!
So you see this photo on facebook from a night of clubbing, and you want to ask "did you freak dance with any girls?" .................I'M NOT TELLING YOU!
Sometimes in life, you just have to be there!
If you ain't there, you ain't going to know!
I don't kiss & tell!
I will NOT tell you details of who I was dancing with! Or if we did anything afterwards (use your own imagination)
and again...................
If you ain't there, you ain't going to know!
Sometimes in life, you just have to be there!
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Here's the YouTube speech on that issue
"Control Your Curiosity"
PS: OK, I will give one important detail about my party life: I don't do any drugs nor do I drink any alcohol! I am willing to take any breathalyzer test any night I'm at the club!
PS #2: Do NOT confuse my "no telling" message with the "no snitching, no tattling message". If you are a victim or a witness of a violent crime, yes DO TELL the authorities!
