Wednesday, July 08, 2015

Gender & Fights

Pretend you're an average sized man! Imagine you're at the bar  trying to order a beverage. Now imagine all of a sudden, someone the size of Suge Knight bumped against you, trying to make room for himself so he too could order a beverage?

Would you even try to throw a punch at him?

What would happen if you did?

Probably get knocked out, right?


Yet, in Tallahassee, Florida,  a woman at the bar, got so upset when Florida State QB DeAndre Johnson accidentally bumped against her,  that she started yelling and made a fist. Johnson tried to restrain her like a gentleman would! But the woman responded by punching Johnson.  ONLY AFTER that did Johnson punched her in the face!

You can watch it at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hGGdlL5U61U



In other words, De'Andre Johnson defended himself against an aggressor!


But because Florida State University (FSU) didn't investigate rape allegations against Jameis Winson (aka Rapist Winston) until months after allegations surface,  FSU is now in over-compensation mode!

Jameis Winston's case should've been subjected to aggressive investigations. Based on the allegations and testimony, Rapist Winston should've been expelled!
You learn more about Rapist Winston not receiving the proper investigation at http://www.thenation.com/blog/193985/reality-their-own-jameis-winston-rape-and-seminole-fandom-florida-state


But De'Andre Johnson?  He got expelled for .................defending himself!  Screw That!

As for this cliche about  "you shouldn't hit a girl?" 


De'Andre Johnson was not hitting a girlfriend for dancing with another guy

De'Andre Johnson was not hitting a girlfriend for texting another guy

De'Andre Johnson was not hitting his wife for not cooking him eggs like the movie "Once Were Warriors"

De'Andre Johnson was not hitting a woman who refused to give him money!

De'Andre Johnson was not hitting a woman who refused to give him sexual favors!

De'Andre Johnson was not  even hitting a girl who only said insulting things to him!



De'Andre Johnson defended himself against an abled-body adult aggressor!


AS for that female aggressor, she wants to start a fight with a man? She better have Randa Rousey skills!


Because you know what? If you're a man up against a female aggressor, you don't have time to guess whether or not she has Randa Rousey skills. Just because someone is (let's say) 6 inches shorter than you, doesn't mean they can't seriously hurt you! There's smaller guys who can fight like a wild animal and can severely hurt a bigger guy who lacks aggressive tendencies and quick reflexes!




Here's a comment on the YouTube video


If you wanna act tough like a man, and hit a man, then you can sure enough get hit like a man. Us women need to understand these men ain't playin' this feminism (beep) no more. Just cause you're a women does NOT give you the right to be a complete cunt towards a man without any consequences.



THE REAL (profanity) HERE IS FLORIDA STATE ADMINISTRATION AND COACHING STAFF. They are so afraid of negative media they cut this kid loose.  As the mother of a boy.  I have taught my son not to hit women.  I taught him to respect women.  as the mother of a girl, I taught my daughter to act like a lady and you will be treated like a lady.  I don't condone violence however, If you get pissy drunk and attack someone I don't care if it is male or female chances are you are going to get hit back. To those women who think you can go around hitting men and not get hit back, WAKE up, it's not going to happen. This guy didn't walk up to the bar and sucker punch this girl. She clearly started it. To the writer who says that she didn't hit him hard enough to hurt him.How do you know what her intent was.  That didn't look like a LOVE  tap to me.  To me it looked like she gave it all she had.   Bottom line here is there is a DOUBLE STANDARD in place here.  You're saying tht if this girl had hit another girl she SHOULD be charged.  But, it's OKAY for her to hit a guy. ZERO tolerance means everyone.


And here's Whoopi Goldberg speaking on the same issue






or as one person said on facebook : Hey Equal Rights, Equal Fights!!


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Look, I have great respect for respectful women!

I have great respect for women who rise to the top of their industry!

I have great respect for female athletes!

I have great respect for REAL victims of domestic violence and sexual assaults!  

(women who start fights with men and get punched by men defending themselves DO NOT count as REAL victims of domestic violence) 

I have great respect for the hard-working single mothers who sacrifice so that their children can have something to eat and a roof over their head!

I have great respect for the many women I have worked with at various job sites over the years!

I have great respect for the many female teachers I have had!

I have great respect for the strong women I grew up with in public housing who gave me tons of respect! 

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But I am tired of this crap that "men don't have the right to defend themselves against violent women" 

I'm tired of those few women who play victim when they lose fights that they have started! 

It is those few violent women who disrespect the real struggle women historically (and even currently) have to go through just
  • to make use of their talents
  •  to get an education
  • to have the right to vote
  • to gain leadership positions 
  • to not be abused at home 
  • to walk outside at night without fear
  • to live without fear of rape
  • to live with dignity
  • to even have basic respect

That woman at the Tallahassee bar ought to be ashamed of herself and need to publicly apologize for disrespecting the real struggles of women out there!