Friday, August 09, 2013

Mister Worldwide

Today, in a database searching class, we went over altmetrics.

Here's wikipedia's description from it's Impact Factor page http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Impact_factor

Alternative metrics, or "altmetrics", often measure impact at an article level and include article views, downloads, or mentions in social media.

 Some samples described in class has to do with how many times an article has been cited, linked, e-mailed or downloaded.

One slide showed the geographic distribution of a scholarly article getting read.

With Blogger, you get to track the same info with your blog.


Here's a screenshot of that example


My "all-time" stats 
(well actually since 2007, when Blogger started tracking these things)


(the green & white  blob on the right just blocks out other info, related to what web browsers are linking to my blog, I put that green & white  blob   courtesy of Jing)


But yeah, I do have an international audience. Even from Latvia a tiny European country.

This list only shows the top 10 countries. Those that didn't have 208 pageviews got left out. :(



But for the pageviews for this week 



Got a lot of Latvian fans this week.

A little more diverse group of countries listed there



 But my quest for world domination is not complete. India is the 2nd most populated country in the world but is not on either list. Also, neither list had gotten an African or Middle Eastern country.  Hopefully whoever was spreading the word in Latvia will soon spread the word in Africa, the Middle East and India. 



PS: I know rapper Pitbull is the real "Mr Worldwide". Much respect to him!

Thursday, August 08, 2013

It Never Gets Easier

Most of us have experience with friends or relatives say or do stuff that annoys you even when they don't intend to. 

But you know that their behavior has to stop.

And you know you'll go insane if you don't say anything.

And you don't want to tell them off in front of everyone, partly to save them from embarrassment, partly to save everyone else the trauma of seeing friends/relatives arguing!

Me, I'd rather just send a letter or an e-mail telling them how I feel about their behavior!

Telling them from a distance usually gives them time to think before they react.   Whereas telling them in a face-to-face conversation gives them time pressure to react now, which can cause you or them to say something they might later regret.

I have just sent a letter to someone in my family.  It'll probably be in his/her mailbox today. He/she probably read it by now!

It is a very serious topic and I want that person to get his/her act together before we meet again!  It's at the point where I am telling that person "if you keep that up, I will boycott any gatherings in which you are present". Yes, it's that bad!

I have sent similar letters to other people over the years. It's never comfortable to do so.

It never gets easier, but it just has to be done! 

Wednesday, August 07, 2013

Not a fan of UPS policies

If you're doing online shopping, make sure you know how your stuff is being delivered before clicking the checkout button.


If the company ships your stuff directly by United Parcel Services (UPS) you may want to re-consider!


You see, UPS does NOT tell you what time they're coming by your house!

So you're expected to wait at home ALL DAY just to receive your package!

Who has time for that?

And if you live in a secured building (like I do), they can't just come in and leave your stuff by your door. Plus, I don't want stuff left outside by my door. You never know who'll be thinking  "hey, free stuff".


And even worse, their delivery workers are not allowed to call the customer's  phone # when they come by my home to confirm I'm home!

That is the most stupidest delivery  policy known to humanity!

So if you're not home when they come by (and they don't tell you when they'll come by), you got to go to their facility to pick up your item.

Their facility on Oahu is on an isolated road near the airport! If you're a bus rider, you got to get off by Nimitz and walk multiple blocks on Lagoon Drive!

And UPS doesn't automatically deliver to the nearest UPS store even if you request it! You have to call the UPS Store yourself and hope they'll allow you to receive your stuff there! 

Fed Ex isn't that messed up. They're willing to hold your stuff at the nearest FedEx Office instead of making you go to their isolated facility to get your stuff!


For deliveries, I'd rather just rely on the U.S. Post Office. I know all the jokes and complaints about the U.S. Post OfficeBut I don't have any problems with their package delivery! They have easy access to my apartment, they leave a key in my mailbox, and with that key I can just open the bigger mailbox to get my stuff!  No need to stay at home all day just to wait for the delivery worker! And no need to go to an isolated facility in the middle of nowhere! 

So yeah, I'm avoiding the UPS as much as possible.

Though if UPS changes their policy, let me know! 
 

my time at NVMS

Time to stop holding things in!

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I was working as a Para-Professional Tutor (PPT) at Niu Valley Middle School (NVMS)  from April 2010 to May 2011.

Actually, my job interview was on February 2010 but my employment started on April 2010. Typical DOE red tape!


Anyways, I  was a one-on-one tutor for a few students who need special services.

I can't tell you too much detail about the individual students I was working with, nor how I was supposed to help them. Part of it is because of confidentiality rules, plus I don't want to embarrass the individual students I was working with.

However, it's some of the staff members who ought to be embarrassed of themselves.

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First off, SPED teacher  Randi (Sagawa) Passantino who I'll just refered to as "Miss RSP"  in the rest of this blog post.




Good news: good spirit, good enthusiasm.

Bad news: very disorganized, poor leader.


She doesn't tell new PPTs what they're supposed to be doing or how they're supposed to be doing things until it is too late!  And she only does it after the fact and loud enough for everyone to hear

Good leaders tell you and prep you ahead of time! "Miss RSP" doesn't!

Good leaders try to correct you in a way on an individual level in at least a semi-private setting (ie. correct you softly at the teacher's desk). "Miss RSP" does the exact opposite. She'll embarrass staff members in a loud tone in front of everyone.

I mean, it's one thing to yell at  some fool playing around in class! It's one thing to yell when the students won't be quiet when I start the class!  But minor mistakes are to be corrected in a softer tone of voice. "Miss RSP" doesn't believe in a softer tone of voice, ever! Therefore, "Miss Blank" is all noise, no sense!

It is also impossible to talk with "Miss RSP" in a low-key environment. She walks away when I tell her "I won't know if you don't tell me". Real leaders don't walk away when being told that!  "Miss RSP" isn't a real leader,  is all ego, no humility!
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Math teacher Stephen Duncan allows chaos to occur in his homeroom. And he has the nerve to tell me "what happens in this class stays in this class". WRONG MOVE MISTER!

I reported that statement to the vice-principal  who thought that statement was "so stupid". The vice-principal agreed with me when I said "anything that happens in class is fair game".

Stephen Duncan, instead of telling me "what happens in this class stays in this class", why not put more effort in controlling your class?  

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And talking about class management, PPTs are supposed to be silent  passive observers  whenever the classroom teacher don't even put much effort in classroom management.  This was the instruction by one of the former vice-principals (Kelly Bart) when I mentioned to him about the chaos occurring in a Japanese-language class.

The teacher was a temp hire (regular teacher was on maternity leave) and was excessively lenient.  There was constant trash talking and running around among the students in the class

Yet the VP Bart's order to me was to be a silent passive observer and just help the student I was assigned to help.

(by the way, I was supposed to help that student, even in classes where I have no expertise, ie. Japanese language)

Anyways, I was so angry about the situation, I went to the other VP and the principal on this issue! I was then told I can call security if anything goes on, as long as I got the teacher's permission. Afterwards, the temp teacher finally put more effort in classroom management.

In the last quarter, that class finally had a different temp teacher. He was more of a disciplinarian without being overly harsh. He was one of the coolest people on campus!  The bad kids didn't like him, but the good kids did!

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Because PPTs are supposed to silent observers when other kids are causing chaosI no longer work as a PPT!  

 I'm tired of being silent when chaos occurs in class!

I'd rather be a substitute teacher than a PPT! Even if the students give subs a hard time, at least I'm allowed to put  effort in classroom management   instead of just being a silent passive observer!  I'm done with being a silent passive observer!

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There was also this Student Service clerk Winnie Yuen. She asked the usual introduction question "where are you from?" I told her I was from this island. She then asked "where are you really from?" EXCUSE ME I just answered your question!  Racial profiling from someone who acts as if only Asians and Polynesians can say they grow up in Hawaii. I like see her tell people in Idaho or Mississippi that she's a US citizen! Ha! 

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Other that though, I like most of the people at NVMS!  

The head secretary (officially called the SASA) Eric Ikawa is one of the coolest people on Earth. 

Rick Nagata is a great social studies teacher! 

Monica Boehm is no longer there, but she's an engaging English teacher with real passion in the subject!

Mr Doi is a real PE teacher. He actually teaches the students about the games, whereas my PE teachers were just like "here's the ball, make a team and go play" 

Ms Lozis teaches the video-making, which is a class I wish I had when I was in school! 

I also remember the fun conversations with EA Traci Smith!

 Candice Kuo was the librarian, very nice sweet woman!  Same with counselor Angie Inoue. 

Shon was the after-school activity guy! A cool guy!

And if I forget the other staff members I got along with, I apologize!

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Tuesday, July 30, 2013

Facial Expressions can be VERY misleading

Some people think they know what you're thinking just by looking at your facial expressions.

Those people are not only wrong, but mega-wrong!


I mentioned this issue back in last year's blog post about the 2012 Summer Olympics (part 4) at http://pablowegesend.blogspot.com/2012/08/2012-london-olympics.html

I sometimes hear people say nonsense like "facial expressions say it all".

No it doesn't. Sometimes, they say NOTHING at all!

But USA gymnast  McKayla Maroney has been getting lots of flack over her "serious looking" facial expressions.


and a few paragraphs later, I mentioned this

 Look, I've known people who look "grumpy" or "overly serious" when I first met them, but when you get to know them, they're really nice people. They just have a tendency to frown.


I had the opposite issue. I had people asking me in middle school "why are you smiling so much" when I didn't even know I was smiling! Honest! I don't spend much time paying attention to my facial expression.

For some reason, that happened more often at middle schools more than anywhere else. Even as a sub teacher, I got asked "why are you always smiling" in middle schools more than elementary or high schools.

For example, at Niu Valley Middle School,  when 2 boys got of control, and I called security to come and get those boys out of the class. After I made the phone call, I heard a girl say "look, the teacher is still smiling through all this".  The reality was that I wasn't even close to feeling happy at that moment!  I was really irritated that those 2 boys were still play-fighting and trash talking even after I asked them to re-focus on their class-work. I could yell, but really, I know that yelling would be considered "entertainment" to the class!

But yeah, I was accused of smiling, when I was really frustrated inside.

That tells you that facial expressions TELLS YOU NOTHING and can easily fool those chumps who think "facial expressions say it all"

I also had an opposite problem too.  When I used to watch TV more often, I dont always look directly at the TV, but I'm paying attention to what's being said! And yet, people assume I'm bored or not watching!


Or I've been accused of being "bored" because I don't have the "proper" facial expressions when I'm in a conversation!  As I said, I don't spend much time paying attention to my facial expression.

Or I have been accused of "being scared" when I felt absolutely zero fear on the inside.  But again, my facial expressions and/or body language has been misinterpreted as "fear" even when I wasn't even afraid.  As I said, I don't spend much time paying attention to my facial expression.

As I'm getting older, I do realize I have to pay more attention to my facial expressions, otherwise, other people will get the wrong impressions!

 But don't assume that you know what the person is feeling just on facial expressions alone.


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Another thing: I remember reading about this common scenario : girl smiles, the boy thinks that means she wants to have sex with him. THAT, is a classic example of someone misinterpreting another person's facial expression! 

Now, you understand my earlier point? 

Sunday, July 21, 2013

The Fear of the Other

Ever since the 8-day old verdict in the George Zimmerman's case, there has been some fear among African-Americans that they might be the next victim of another non-black amateur security guy who pretends to be "standing his ground".

(example at  http://www.salon.com/2013/07/14/how_power_works_in_america/)

That's not much different from those European-Americans who spend a lot of time being afraid of "the black thug", "the Mexican illegal" or "the Muslim terrorist"?

(example at  http://pablowegesend.blogspot.com/2007/06/hypocracy-of-anti-immigration-fascists.html)

The politically incorrect reality is that in the over-whelming majority of crimes, the predator and the victim are of the same race. 

In other words, an African-American is more likely to be a victim of a black-on-black crime than to be a victim of  some white/Jew/Latino amateur security guy.

And a European-American is more likely to be a victim of a white-on-white crime than to be a victim of some "black thug", "Mexican illegal" or "Muslim terrorist".

But for some reason, it's harder to fear someone who look like your brother or cousin than it is to fear someone who looks different from you.

It's easier to be afraid when you look different from the crowd, than to be afraid of a crowd of folks who look like you, even when some in the crowd are obnoxious jerks.

This isn't just a "black thing" or a "white thing".

Here in Hawaii, there is a fear of the Micronesian, the most recent group of immigrants.

They're not any more violent than other racial groups here, but any incident that involves them leads to tons of racist commentary online that doesn't happen much if the incident involves Asians or Native Hawaiians.

Even articles about public housing complexes (ie Kuhio Park Terrace, Mayor Wrights, Palolo Valley Homes, etc.) recieve tons of racist commentary about Micronesians, even though the problems  of those public housing complexes (ie. damaged facilities, crime, public drunkenness) were going on WAY BEFORE  the Micronesians started to move in. 

Even when the Micronesia Mart was being built, I was hearing racist comments about it on the bus or in online forums. Well, the store just opened and I went inside. The staff was very nice and helpful. The store was clean and organized.  They don't deserve the hateful racist abuse that I've been hearing.

In fact, most of the Micronesians I know (from the schools, workplaces, stores, etc) are very nice people. Sure, there's a few knuckleheads among them, but the same is true about other racial groups as well.

But too many in Hawaii view them as "The Other", too many in Hawaii only want the racial mixture that was there when they were born.  

Even my uncle, who used to complain about racism and injustices against his favorite groups (ie Native Hawaiians, African-Americans) is now complaining about Micronesians moving to his neighborhood. Well, uncle, keep this crap up and I will put your name on my blog posts and expose you to the light!   (this is the same uncle I mentioned before that complains about facebook even though he never tried it, and keeps complaining about things getting worse when they're not! He wants to party like it's 1979 all over again! It's probably change in general that he fears more than any racial group, but he's still wrong!)


But even before the Micronesian immigration, there was a different fear of "The Other" in  Hawaii. There used to be a fear of the Filipinos and Samoans just a few decades ago.  They were stereotyped as thuggish people who will only be living in poverty. But now many of them have middle-class jobs and live in the suburbs.

And before that, there was a fear of the "Japanese takeover"!  It turned out later that the Japanese-Americans are can be just as American as all those descendants of European immigrants

We need to stop fearing "The Other"! We need to learn to accept diversity! We need to accept the fact there will be new racial and cultural groups moving to your neighborhood! We need to put things in perspective!

AS Rodney King once said, "can't we all just get along?"

Tuesday, July 16, 2013

After the Trial - George Zimmerman and Trayvon Martin

This past Saturday, George Zimmerman was found not guilty in the death of Trayvon Martin.

Here a few thoughts

1) Massive Urban Racial  Riots is a Thing of the Past 

This  was a racially-divisive trial and our default reaction to these types of trials is to expect a riot if there's a certain verdict.

That's because many of us had memories of the April 29, 1992. On that date, the verdict for the 4 European-American police officers who brutally beat Rodney King was announced. Three had Not Guilty, one had a hung jury verdict.  Chaos reigned the streets of Los Angeles the next few days.

Learn more at http://pablowegesend.blogspot.com/2012/04/2-decades-since-la-riots.html


But this time , no massive urban riots. Just a few reports a few knuckleheads vandalizing police cars in Oakland. But nothing even coming close to the scale of the 1992 LA Riots.

This is a major sign that American society has matured a great deal in the last 2 decades. 

This is also a major sign that racial riots might just be a thing of the past.  And that anyone who expects future racial riots in response to trials could be seen as "someone whose mindset is stuck in the past."


The reasons are plentiful.

It's hard to rebel against "white society" when we have a man with African ancestry as our President. And even if the next few presidents are European-Americans, it will still be hard to say "the system is rigged against us" when a man with a Kenyan father has been elected TWICE as US president.

Also, a whole generation of Americans of all races have grown up under the supervision of non-white teachers, security guards, principals and bosses. 

Inter-racial dating and marriages have increased nationwide, and the US is becoming a much more diverse society with more Latinos, Asians, Middle Easterners, and others being part of the social fabric.

There are still anti-immigration fanatics making noise. But they are on the losing side of history. The movement is towards a more lenient immigration policy. It may or may not be official this year, but I can see it coming before the end of this decade.

Also, looters have learned a hard lesson from the LA riots --- store owners are armed and ready to fight back.  And being that George Zimmerman was officially found Not Guilty due to self-defense, the street thugs know that property owners WILL stand their ground.

At this point, the only time massive looting will probably happen again in the US will probably be a Hurricane Katrina-like situation has happened and most property owners  have evacuated and not be around to defend their property.


For futher reading on this issue

"The Riots That Didn't Happen: Racial progress and the Zimmerman verdict."
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424127887323848804578607712534481472.html?mod=djemEditorialPage_h

2) "Standing Your Ground" against the "suspicious"

Despite the verdict of Not Guilty due to "self-defense", I still don't think this case was a "Stand Your Ground" situation.

"Stand Your Ground" is supposed to refer to defending yourself from un-provoked attacks.

George Zimmerman, however, did provoke a reaction from Trayvon Martin.

Zimmerman was an amateur security person who thought Martin "looked suspicious". Zimmerman called 911, and the dispatcher advised him to not follow nor confront Martin. Yet, Zimmerman kept following and then confronted Martin. Trayvon Martin felt threatened by what he felt was some random dude who wanted to start a fight. A fight happened, and Zimmerman shot him.

This could have been prevented had Zimmerman just followed the dispatcher's advice and not confront Trayvon Martin. .

So no, I don't think "stand your ground" applied to Zimmerman in this case.

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Martin wasn't out for trouble that night. He was just going to a store in his relative's neighborhood and was going back to his relative's house to catch the rest of the televised basketball game.

But he "looked suspicious".

What the hell is that supposed to mean anyways?

 Even if you think that person may be "up to no good", if you don't have evidence,  JUST LEAVE THAT PERSON ALONE!  Sometimes, a person is just lost!

However, some people are so paranoid about "people up to no good", that they think any stranger is "up to no good" and "needs to be confronted".

I like to walk (or bike) around different neighborhoods just to explore. I sometimes ride a bike through Kalihi or walk around the back streets of Manoa. I shouldn't be made to feel like an intruder if I'm just passing by, even though I don't look like their average neighbor.   And I don't really care if someone new is walking around my neighborhood either. Just let it go already.

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However, if you're someone in authority, it's easy to become paranoid. While being in authority sounds like "being in control", you are constantly worried about losing control.

However, it's easy to take that anxiety too far.  I still remember working at Kahala Macy's when one day there was a guy running out of the store with unpaid items. The next day, another guy walked out carrying a pair of pants ......oh, oh.........but he walked back into the store. I told him " hey,  we can hold that pants for you if you need to go outside". He then showed me the pants ..............it was a brand that our store didn't sell..............oops............... on my part.  I then apologized to that guy.

I also remember, as a substitute teacher, I heard what I thought was a racial slur. I was ready to intervene and be the "anti-racist warrior".  It turned out someone said student's last name, which just happened to sound like an infamous racial slur. That student confirmed that she wasn't being called that slur, her last name just happened to sound like it! Very awkward on all sides. Yep, my anxiety as an authority figure led to that awkward situation.

But yeah, easy to get paranoid about suspicious situations. But you still have to control your suspicions and tread carefully.

After all, you wouldn't like it if you were treated like a "suspicious person" when you're just minding your own business.
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The gun control activists pimped this case to spread their anti-gun propaganda.

It didn't work!

In real life, people have used guns to protect themselves against real danger. Some of them are the racial minorities.

http://pablowegesend.blogspot.com/2012/03/what-stand-your-ground-really-is.html

Those Radical Left gun-control fanatics will shut their ears and yell "we can't hear you" when I'll tell this story I just saw online.

It's about an African-American male who "stood his ground" and shot a home invader!

http://www.clickondetroit.com/news/news/75-year-old-Detroit-man-who-shot-intruder-won-t-be-charged/-/4714498/9830764/-/6bgab2z/-/index.html


Willie White said he was only trying to protect his wife when he shot and killed an 18-year-old man who was trying to break into his home on city's west side Tuesday morning. 
White said his side door was kicked in at about 1 a.m.

That is a true case of "Stand Your Ground".


3) Racial (and other )Biases on All Sides


George Zimmerman had a reputation for treating African-Americans in his community as "suspicious"


http://articles.orlandosentinel.com/2012-03-20/news/os-trayvon-martin-george-zimmerman-20120320_1_robert-zimmerman-domestic-violence-online-petition


Teontae Ami, who also lives in the Retreat at Twin Lakes community, said very few black teenagers like himself live in the neighborhood.

Teontae, 17, said he and a close friend who is black would sit at the end of a driveway in the evening and felt uncomfortable when Zimmerman would pass them on a neighborhood patrol.
They used to greet him, but he never responded, Teontae said.
"I think he took his job too seriously," Teontae said, referring to Zimmerman's watch patrols. A student, Teontae said his friend was once confronted by Zimmerman, who accused him of stealing a bike.
"I don't want to call it a black thing, but it sure seemed like it," said Teontae, who said the bike was never stolen.

Another neighbor, 55-year-old Frank Taaffe, defended Zimmerman as "not a racist."

Taaffe, a marketing specialist who had been a watch captain with Zimmerman until December, said he may have been "overzealous, maybe," but "his main concern is the safety and welfare of the community."

 Others who knew George Zimmerman have said he's not racist,

http://www.chattanoogan.com/2013/7/15/255110/What-We-Talk-About-When-We-Talk-About.aspx

There is so much intellectual laziness and dishonesty afoot these days, it can all get a little confusing. So here is a handy little “Field Guide To Ignorant Things Ignorant People Say” that covers the low-lights of what is being texted, tweeted, and shouted in the streets after the not guilty verdict was announced Saturday night.  
1. George Zimmerman Is A Racist
This one is a real head-scratcher if you know even a teeny-tiny bit about George Zimmerman. Zimmerman’s high school prom date- black. Zimmerman’s business partner- black. Zimmerman’s wife’s best friend- black. Kids Zimmerman tutors after school for free- black. Neighbor Zimmerman invited to stay at his house as long as she needed after being rattled by a break in to her house, black. Homeless man killed that Zimmerman fought for justice for- black. Fifty-one percent of the neighborhood where Zimmerman rents a house- black/brown. Seriously, if you have spouted this nonsense, shame on you. Nobody who actually knows Zimmerman labelled him a racist, but you can spot that sort of thing from your couch in Kalamazoo.

But having an over-zealous attitude as an authority figure (even an amateur one) can easily land you charges of racism. Especially if you have the authority to use violent force. And especially when you are dealing with groups of people whose ancestral history included violent racist oppression.

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But it's not only George Zimmerman that is guilty of having racial biases.

Admit it, when most of us heard the name George Zimmerman, we were thinking of  a person who would have white skin, and blond/brown hair. Some of us were thinking it would be a Jewish guy.

Easy to think   ...........oh,oh, white man killed killed black boy.

Until we say George Zimmerman's face and noticed he "looked Hispanic". And it turns out, his mom was from Peru.

The newspapers started to call Zimmerman a "white Hispanic" even though they don't even use that word to refer to well-known white-skinned Hispanics like Pitbull, Gloria Estefan, Marc Anthony, or Christina Aguillera.

ABC News
George Zimmerman
CNN
Pitbull

Guess which one is usually called the "white Hispanic"?


But yeah, it's easier to sell a story of "racist white Anglo man killed black boy" than to sell a true story of "part-Latino, part-Jewish guy confronted a taller African-American teen, both got into a fight, and the part-Latino, part-Jewish was losing the fight so he shot the taller African-American teen"


That story of "white racist Anglo man killed black boy" was also made easier to sell since Trayvon Martin's family released an outdated photo from when Martin was younger.


Reuters
A commonly seen photo of Trayvon Martin



But that photo neglected to show that by the time Trayvon Martin was confronted by George Zimmerman, Martin already grew to be taller (but still lighter) than the shorter, fatter George Zimmerman.


TheGrio.Com
A more recent photo of Trayvon Martin


 I know neither photos prove anything about anyone's character. But being that everyone saw the top photo but very few saw the bottom photo, people got the impression that Trayvon Martin was too small a kid to fight back when confronted by George Zimmerman.  But the taller Martin wasn't going to take crap from Zimmerman and fought back. Zimmerman was losing the fight he started and shot Martin.

This isn't about "making Trayvon Martin look like a thug", it's just  that  sugar-coating things about a gunshot victim was never really necessary to begin with.


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 Rachel Jentel was last person Trayvon Martin was talking to, on the phone, before he was confronted by George Zimmerman.

Because she didn't speak "proper English" and because she wasn't mentally prepared to deal with aggressive defense lawyers, she took a whole bunch of abuse from social media.

There were taunts of "not proper English", nevermind that if YOU were growing up in her environment, speaking ebonics is a matter of survival.  Just like speaking pidgin in rural Hawaii, or "speaking Southern" in rural areas of the South, you communicate in the way the people around you will understand you. So you shouldn't hold it against Rachel Jentel for speaking in ebonics.

Plus, some people do have serious speech impediments.  Some people struggle with stuttering or mumbling. Some people naturally speak too soft or speak too fast. You can't hold that against them in a trial testimony. How would like it if that was YOUR situation, when YOUR friend got killed and YOU have to testify about the issue in court?  Not fun, is it?

This is why defendants are not required to testify in court. This is to protect those with speech impediments from being verbally trampled by slick, articulate lawyers. This is so that defendants have their own slick, articulate lawyer to defend them against slick, articulate prosecutors.

But the worst abuse from social media that I know of was from Olympic athlete Lolo Jones with this




This is sick and disgusting!

Lolo Jones think she's so slick and funny to compare a real life woman (whose  in the public eye  ONLY because her friend got killed)  to  a movie character that is a "man dressed like a woman"! Imagine if you were made mocked that way by a celebrity who only knows of you because your friend got killed!

Lolo Jeans could delete whatever Tweets she wants, but we all have seen screenshots of that one! Karma will bite her big time in the future.

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Rachel Jentel did made a serious error after she mentioned that Trayvon Martin told her he was followed by a "creepy-ass cracker".  Jentel was asked the word "cracker" was a racist slur. Jentel said it wasn't.

Yes it is!  Sure, some European-Americans might jokingly call themselves a "cracker" in the same way some African-Americans might jokingly call themselves the N-word! But that still doesn't erase the fact that the word "cracker" is usually used in a negative way about "white people"! 


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And of course, Trayvon Martin was portrayed by some right-wingers as some "super-thug" all because (like other teenagers of all races), he had images of himself smoking weed and sticking middle fingers on his social network sites. 

But like I said in a previous blog post, that seemed to be more "image and acting" than being a serious gangsta.


Yeah, Martin had photos showing a tough-guy side of him.
In other words, pretty much acting like about 90% of teenagers out there!
I mean, most teenagers (black, white, brown, yellow, rich, poor, whatever) want to impress through their peers with social network pages with pictures of them sticking middle fingers, flexing their biceps, holding fake weapons, and imitating the fashion of hardcore rock or rap artists!
Most of it is Just Image and Acting!
Most of them are smart enough to know NOT to act like that at a job interview, or at a church! And they sure are NOT acting like that in front of their grandparents!

Most of them will just grow out of it, and go on to lead 90% honorable lives as adults.

When European-American kids act like that, it's usually seen as "just a phase".

But so many people see an African-American kid acting like that, and have an emotional image of "omg........that kid will become a super-gangsta and there's no hope for him, he's dangerous forever".

When in reality, many African-American (and other minority youth) who live in the ghetto might experiment with having a thug image during their early teen years, but fade away from that as they reach late adolescence.   In other words, for most of them, "it's just a phase" 

Read this from a real expert on street gangs, USC researcher Alex Alonso.


I often hear from naive outsiders regarding gangs, that one can never leave the gang safely without living in constant and perpetual danger. This is a Hollywood movie myth, fueled through nightly news reports and irresponsible journalism capped off with exaggerated law enforcement reports based on their anecdotal experiences.
Leaving a gang is not a treasonous act and teenagers walk away from the gang often. Some teens have a difficult time finding their position within the neighborhood gang, while others are quickly turned off from the culture. Some new recruits may not get along with individual members that have seniority, while they are best friends with other members. Also when many teens join a gang, they are actually escaping from other problems in their lives and in many instances, a strong family can steer that youth away from the gang. Several studies have also found that one-half to two-thirds of teen gang members leave the gang by the end of their first year of membership (Battin-Pearson et al., 1997; Esbensen and Huizinga, 1993; Thornberry, 1998).
Older teens and members in their early twenties have the option of getting “jump out” the gang, a brief assault to serve as a penalty. This process does not carry with it any additional consequences and it is extremely common within the Hispanic gang culture of Southern California.
For gang members that are in their 20s and 30s, that have spent significant time with the gang, but have taken on other activities such as starting a family, attending school, or finding a stable job, will do what is known as “mature out” the gang, a gradual disaffiliation with the gang while adapting to changes in ones life (Matza, 1964, Vigil, 1988). These are all non-threatening methods that individuals have left gangs, but indeed for some, leaving the gang can be dangerous.
Alonso goes on to mention that those who leave the gang who do end up in danger are the ones who inform the police about gang activities.  Those who leave quietly tend to be left alone.
For those gang members that created conflict within the neighborhood by either testifying against a former associate or debriefing about the gang to prison officials can lead to an individual leaving the gang under hazardous circumstances. It is considered an act of betrayal when one person decides to expose and provide information on another person who was at one time considered a friend. Even within law enforcement circles, to expose another cop of corruption, is considered an act of betrayal, and a violation of the “code of silence” or as former New York detective Frank Serpico calls it, “the blue wall of silence.”


There was no evidence that Trayvon Martin was ever in a real gang. He might've got into some trouble for marijuana and fights, but so do many upper-class teens in suburban communities. But very rarely are they feared as "real gangstas".

But the point is, that even most kids (of all races and income-levels) who experiment with the bad-boy image  actually grow out that phase and move on to more productive attitudes and lifestyles.

4) Confirming Fears


Cases like these, which have tons of nuances and "grey areas", tend to be talked about in "black/white, either/or" terms.

Part of it is due to the "good versus evil" narratives that is the staple of  liberal and conservative media outlets.

Part of it is that those media outlets are merchants of fear.

This is one e-mail I gotten from a friend that best describes the issue.


I have to admit to somewhat regretting seeing my Facebook news feed today, because I keep seeing commentary on the Zimmerman verdict. And, of course, there is no nuance to what the people are saying at all. Predictably, they think there are only two positions on the issue, both extreme. I find it worrisome that so many people on both the Left and Right are trying to make Zimmerman and Trayvon Martin into symbols of their own causes and fears.

Of course, the people on the Left are trying to make it sound like Trayvon Martin was a completely innocent angel who was killed by Zimmerman for no reason other than that Zimmerman is a white supremacist.
And then there are people on the Right trying to make it sound like Trayvon Martin was some inhumanly evil criminal thug. I hear the usual insinuations that everyone the Left is soft on crime and will let criminals, especially black criminals, get away with everything, particularly terrorizing middle-class whites. And then they try to prop up Zimmerman as some kind of defender of middle-class (white) safety against a black criminal underclass that has run amok due to the permissiveness of politically-correct liberals.
I find the stereotypes from both sides really troublesome, because each side dehumanizes both Martin and Zimmerman; each side even dehumanizes the person it claims to side with. They are trying to make Zimmerman and Martin into symbols when neither of them ever intended to be any sort of symbol -- definitely not symbols for other people's political causes. They are not symbols; they are human beings just trying to live their lives, and they made certain choices.

I do think that Zimmerman was an overly-worried busybody who often called the police about things that turned out to be nothing. I do think that he was suspicious of Martin for insufficient reasons and that he showed very poor judgment going after Trayvon Martin like that.
I also believe that Trayvon Martin did overreact and get violent toward Zimmerman.
I think that if both of them had chosen differently, this whole tragedy could have been avoided. I think the tragedy is compounded when people try to make them into political symbols. I don't agree with their assumptions that Zimmerman represents "white America in general" and that Trayvon Martin represents 'black America in general." They don't represent anyone else; they were individuals just trying to get by. :-(

AMEN TO THAT!