Tuesday, May 08, 2012

proms, school parties and religious restrictions

It's the time of year, when the school year is almost over.

And for the high school seniors, it's almost graduation time :)

But before that, it's time for the prom!

Some are excited! The party they're looking forward to all their life is almost here!

 Some are nervous because there's all this pressure to have an escort of the opposite sex to go with you! Nobody wants to be the guy who "went by himself".

(That was almost the case for me, but luckily someone did a last-minute hook-up for me.)

And all this stuff for the prom (tuxedos, dresses, etc) --EXPENSIVE!  It could easily leave out those living below the poverty line.

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There is now new trends for proms.

In some schools, it no longer matters if you got an escort (or "date" to be politically correct), just come as you are!

In other schools, it has become more socially acceptable to have a same-gender escort.

But the most bizzare one I have known about is these single-gender proms for ultra-conservative Muslim-Americans.

Yep, an all-girls prom! Kinda miss the whole point of proms in the 1st place.

http://www.nytimes.com/2012/05/02/us/hamtramck-high-holds-all-girl-prom.html


As organizer of Hamtramck High School’s first all-girl prom, which conforms to religious beliefs forbidding dating, dancing with boys or appearing without a head scarf in front of males, Tharima, 17, was forging a new rite of passage for every teenage Muslim girl who had ever spent prom night at home, wistfully watching the limousines roll by
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But at the all-girl prom, there were double double-takes, as some of Tharima’s classmates, normally concealed in a chrysalis of hijab and abaya, the traditional Muslim cloak, literally let their hair down in public for the first time.
Eman Ashabi, a Yemeni-American who helped organize the event, arrived in a ruffled pink gown, her black hair falling in perfect waves, thanks to a curling iron. Like many here, she stunned her friends.

“It’s ‘Oh my god!’ ” said Simone Alhagri, a Yemeni-American junior who was wearing a tight shirred dress. “This is how you look underneath!”

The dance was the denouement of seven months of feverish planning in which a committee raised $2,500, mostly through bake sales. Ignoring the naysayers who could not imagine anyone coming to a prom without boys, Tharima and her friends approached their task systematically, taking a survey of all the girls at Hamtramck High. They found that 65 percent were not able to attend the coed prom because of cultural and religious beliefs. After discussion, the school supported the student-driven alternative.

The first reaction most of us would have to a single-gender prom is "isn't that gay?"

And so ironic that the some Muslim-Americans  promote something that "sounds so gay" when their religions encourages anti-gay discrimination!
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I'm all for appreciate diversity and all this stuff!

I dont judge on race! I got love for everyone --Latinos, Native Americans, Europeans, Africans, Middle Eastern, Asians, Pacific Islanders, Inuits, Aborigines, and whoever else I forgot to mention!


But if the Mormons, the Bapists, Jehovah Witness or any other ultra-conservativeChristian groups tried to have a single-gender prom, Liberal comedians would never stop making jokes about it!

But the anti-Muslim hate crimes have made many liberals hesitant to criticize when Muslim have single-gender proms when they would LOSE ALL HESITATION to mock Christians had they tried the same thing!
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My point is this --- many religions started in ancient societies in which they are the majority.  They're not flexible in adjusting to modern societies!

This idea of "you can't dance with the boys", "you can't date while in high school",blah, blah, blah " is STUPID!

And I don't care if it's Christians, Muslims, Jews, Hindus or atheists making such stupid rules!

Look, part of adolescence is interacting and flirting with the opposite gender. That's nature, that's evolution in action!

That doesn't mean we just encourage people to make babies when they're not ready for it!

But we don't ban rough play for kids, we give them helmets, jock straps, coaches and  martial art senseis to channel rough play in a more positive direction.

Same should be for dating! The solution is not "dont interact or dance with boys/girls"

It shall be going over the guidelines of safety and precautions of dating, to reduce possible problems.  That means going over abstinence, birth control, rape prevention, and ALSO ways to ENJOY the adolescent dating life in a safe manner!

It also means supervised dances in which kids can practice partying skills and playing with the other opposite gender in a safe atmosphere. With the right guidance, kids can enjoying dancing with each other without the drama   :) :) :)

You can't shelter your kids forever. Those who do are  just wussifying their kids! Let the kids have an adventure! Let them have fun! Let them have a childhood! Let them have an adolescence! 



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As for proms, if I was to start a school system from scratch, I wouldn't have school parties that pressure students to pay for expensive clothes (not everyone is rich) or have a date!
 
I'll just have parties in which students come as they are (without the colored bandanas or shirts with negative messages), make jokes with their friends, flirt with the opposite (or same) gender, and PARTY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
No one-gender parties, because no one is excluded, unless they have behavior problems.
 
And the big party is not some overly luxurious banquet, but just a post-graduation party (we call them Project Grads in Hawaii) in there's still supervision. No expensive pressures, no pressures to ask for an escort, just come as you are, proud of graduating and PARTY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sunday, May 06, 2012

Junior Seau and Adam Yauch

Two icons from my adolescence have passed away this past week.

One was a Samoan football player who is from San Diego county, That would be Junior Seau!

The other was a Jewish rapper from New York City. That would be Adam Yauch (aka MCA), a member of the Beastie Boys.

1) Junior Seau  (January 19, 1969 – May 2, 2012)


 photo from Sports Illustrated

Junior Seau was a hard-hitting linebacker who played in the NFL for 20 years. He played (and lost) 2 Super Bowls. He was an all-star from high school, college and the pros. He was a star at the University of Southern California!  He was drafted to play for the San Diego Chargers! Yep, he got to play for the same team that represented the area he grew up in!

Later, he played for the Miami Dolphins! He was about to retire in 2006, saying he was "graduating, instead of retiring". But then he got the opportunity to play for the New England Patriots    who already had the reputation of the best team of that decade!



But he was also a cultural icon. Before Troy Polamalu, Junior Seau was the most famous Samoan player in the NFL!  Before The Rock (aka Dwayne Johnson) became a wrestling star, Seau was the most popular Polynesian star in the USA!

Which was why Junior Seau was so popular here in Hawaii, even though he never lived here! A lot of Polynesian boys wanted to become like him!
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However, even with all that fame, money and stardom, things weren't going so well for Seau in recent years. 20 years in the NFL means your head gets literally damaged from so many hits from other large guys!

Then in October 2010, Junior Seau drove his car off a cliff and survived. People suspected a suicide attempt but Seau claimed to have fallen asleep at the wheel. This was hours after Seau was arrested for domestic violence.

But on May 2, 2012,  Junior Seau committed suicide for real. He shot himself in the chest. He didn't leave a note, but it reminded NFL fans of another recent suicide by Dave Duerson, who shot himself in the chest, and wrote in the note that he wanted his brain to be researched so that people can learn more about the effects of concussions on the brain! He wanted people to be exposed to the reality of the NFL life, that it's not only about glory, riches and groupies. It's a dangerous life in which your brain is literally in danger of getting multiple hits from so many large guys pushing you around!

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Now the question becomes   --- with all the recent publicity about the dangerous effects of playing tackle football has on the brain, will parents still allow their kids to play tackle football?

Parents have always wanted to protect their kids, but they also don't want to shelter them!

Also, parents are usually relieved if their kids become popular at school. And in the USA, high school football players are the most popular guys on campus. Most parents don't want their kids to miss out on that!

Plus, millions of people risk their lives in dangerous jobs like coal mining, firefighting, law enforcement, construction and in the military. And they do it for far less money than an NFL player make.

And for thousands of kids, they look at football as a way to move out of the ghetto or their small towns. If they become good at football, they could get a college scholarship, and if they get even better, they get a chance for a multi-million dollar career.

It's supply and demand. As long as millions of people watch tackle football on TV, then millions of kids will aspire to become professional football players.

There are demands to make the game safer. But to win the game, the players go full speed with full force.

The game of rugby doesn't have the protective equipment that American tackle football has. However, the tackling style is different in rugby, which is done to reduce injuries. Also, the forward pass (which doesn't occur in rugby) requires greater concentration in throwing and catching the ball, making the passer/catcher more vulnerable to surprise hits!

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My first memory of Junior Seau came in 1994, when his San Diego Chargers were on the way to the Super Bowl. I was in the 8th grade that season.

Coincidentally, that happened to be the same year that I first started following the NFL. Before that year, I was already aware of the major teams (ie. 49ers, Cowboys, Raiders, Bills, etc) and I was already aware of the major super stars (ie Joe Montana, Emmit Smith) but I never paid close attention to the NFL until the 8th grade, which is a lot later than  when most kids would start.

Let's put it this way, in 7th grade PE, I ran the ball the wrong way, giving the other team the score. That's more than enough motivation to get with the program and start learning about football.

Anyways, in that football season, the San Diego Chargers happened to be the surprise team. They won their first 6 games, and was the last team to lose a game during the season. They ended the season with an 11-5 record. 

They made it to their 1st (and so far, their only) Super Bowl. Their opponent - the San Francisco 49ers! 2 California teams playing the Super Bowl in Florida. In the game, the Chargers scored 26 points. The 49ers scored .....................49 points!            49ers  won!

Junior Seau was the leader of the team. For that, he will always be appreciated by the Chargers fans!


2) Adam Yauch (August 5, 1964 – May 4, 2012)


photo from http://www.allstarpics.net/0050669/012191454/adam-yauch-pic.html


Adam Yauch (aka MCA) was a member of the Beastie Boys, a Jewish-American musical group that played rock, rap and other forms of music. The Beastie Boys also had Adam Horowitz (Ad Rock) and Micheal Diamond (Mike D)

While the Beastie Boys started out as a punk rock band back in the early 1979, they became a lot more famous for becoming a rap group.

Like Run-DMC, the Beastie Boys were pioneers in sampling hard rock music into rap songs! 

In a mostly African-American hip-hop world, the Beastie Boys stood out! They had extra attention (and extra jealousy) when the "white boys" got mainstream success with their "License to Ill" album in 1986.

In that album, the Beastie Boys played the role of pranksters and party animals. Their first major hit was "(You Gotta) Fight for Your Right (to Party!)"   

The "License to Ill" album also had songs like "No Sleep Till Brooklyn" (another rock-rap combo),    and the more traditional hip-hop songs like  "Brass Monkey", "Slow and Low" and "Paul Revere"

That album was released by Def Jam records. Afterwards, the Beastie Boys left Def Jam and started  Grand Royale Records.

They later made other classic albums like "Paul's Boutique" , "Check Your Head" , "Ill Communication" ,"Hello Nasty" and "To the five Boroughs".

They continued to have broad appeal, to the punk rockers, alternative rockers and the hip-hoppers.
  
They made rock songs like "Grattitude" and "Sabotage".

They made rap songs with heavy bass and drums like "Pass the Mic" (with some of the West Coast gangsta sound included)   and "Wath'ca Want?"  (lots of drums, with the ocassional lead guitars between verses).

They also had  the more traditional rap hits like  "Sure Shot"(with the flute playing in the background) and "Intergalactic".

Most of those songs are humorous songs. However, as the Beastie Boys got older, they also showed a more serious side to themselves.

Adam Yauch was inspired by Tibetan Buddhists that he met, become a Buddhist himself, and started a series of "Free Tibet" concerts to bring awareness about how the Chinese government is abusing the Tibetan minority!

In the 1998 MTV Music Video Awards, Yauch also spoke against the anti-Muslim bigotry. Yauch spoke up against the violent atmosphere at the Woodstock 1999 concert, in which fans committed arson and sexual assaults. Yauch also spoke out against homophobia and apologized for his earlier homophobic taunts (ie. his earlier idea of titling an album with "Dont Be a Faggot")

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I started to pay attention to the Beastie Boys back in 1992 (when I was going from 5th to 6th grade) when their "Check Your Head" album came out, and they had their hits "Wat'cha Want", "Pass the Mic" and "Gratitude".

I have been a big fan of the rock/rap combos. The 1980s saw Run DMC and Beastie Boys use the rock/rap combo, and in the early 1990s, there was the classic Public Enemy/Anthrax's "Bring the Noise". Red Hot Chili Peppers combined funk/punk and rap in some of their songs. Ice-T's  had his Bodycount project.  Biohazard combined heavy metal with gangsta rap, and occasionally did songs with Onyx. 

The "Judgement Night" soundtrack remains an under-rated classic with all the songs being rap/rock combos. It had Helmet & House of Pain, Living Colour and Run DMC, Faith No More & the Booya Tribe, Slayer and Ice-T and much, much more! 

Rage Against the Machine had the alternative/rap combo with far-left political views.  They occassionally collaborated with Cypress Hill and the Beastie Boys. 

Sublime and 311 had combined reggae, ska, punk, metal and rap through their various 1990s hits.

The late 1990s going into the 2000s saw an explosion of rap-metal, with artists like KidRock, Limp Bizkit, Korn, Linkin Park, Quarashi, POD and others.

The later 2000's had  Jensen Reed also had a recent hit "After the War", Soulja Boy & Roscoe Dans  "All the Way turned up" and the Shop Boyz "Party like a Rock Star"

I know there's more to the rap-rock combos!  But this is what I've been able to think of off the top of my head


And there should be a lot more rap-rock combos in the world.

Maybe I should stop being so lazy and start making some records ! 

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In 2009, Yauch was diagnosed with cancer. He went through surgeries and radiation treatments. However, he has passed away last week.  

Thank you Adam Yauch for all the cool stuff you and the Beastie Boys contributed to the music world. You will truly be missed! 

Saturday, May 05, 2012

Bus route insanity



  Earlier this week, I got a letter published in the Honolulu Star-Advertiser

http://www.staradvertiser.com/editorialspremium/letterspremium/20120502_Letters_to_the_Editor.html?id=149774195&c=n



Keep bus routes that serve riders
Proposed changes to TheBus routes are said to prevent an increase in fares ("Changes afoot to TheBus routes ‘not a done deal,'" Star-Advertiser, April 20). But some of the proposed changes are so wrong, that I'd rather pay slightly more for my monthly bus pass.


Do not end No. 4 at McCully/Kalakaua. A lot of University of Hawaii students use No. 4 to go to Waikiki. Same with Makiki/Moiliili residents.


Do not cut Palolo off from the No. 9 route. Palolo residents need more access to the outside areas than just a shuttle. They need buses that can go directly to places outside their communities.


Ending No. 3 at Kapiolani Community College is not OK. You are cutting off access to Kaimuki residents who live between the college and Waialae Avenue, many of whom are elderly residents who can't walk two blocks.


Hopefully, the bus officials will listen to us and keep those routes.


Pablo Wegesend
Moiliili


There was a word-limit for letters to the editors, so there's another thing I want to mention.
There was an idea of getting rid of the B-express bus, which runs the same route as #2 bus.  Those buses run from School Street (in Kalihi) to Waikiki!

I used to live near School Street, and I remember having to take #2 bus to school back when I was a student at McKinley High School! I was living in Lanakila Housing (aka Puahala Homes) at the time.


Even though Lanakila was closer to Farrington High School it was districted to McKinley High School because Farrington was (and still is) over-crowded, so some parts of Kalihi (like Lanakila, Palama, Mayor Wrights) were assigned to McKinley High School instead of the much closer Farrington High School!

Back when I was in high school (late 1990s), there was no B-express bus!

And we didn't have the long buses that we have now!

And the #2 buses were SUPER-CROWDED back then, WAY MORE CROWDED than recent times!

The #2 bus passes by multiple housing projects like Lanakila, Kuhio Park Terrace and Mayor Wright's Housing, so that means it serves communities in which many residents can't afford a car! That meant crowded buses!

And that meant catching the bus at 6:45 (when school starts at 8:15). If you caught the #2 bus afterwards you'll be seeing mega-crowded buses pass by and even if you board a #2 bus, you'll be standing in the bus for at least 45 minutes! And you'll be late to school!

That meant in the early 2000's, the folks running TheBus put a B-express bus to give additional service to the residents of School Street. FINALLY!

But now the geniuses running TheBus want to eliminate the B-express buses?!   Screw that! 

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As for the #4 route (which zig-zags from Nuuanu,downtown, Makiki, UH-Manoa, Mo'ili'ili, and Waikiki) those same geniuses who advocate getting rid of the B-express want to ELIMINATE SERVICE going from UH-Manoa to Waikiki!

EXTREMELY STUPID IDEA!

Don't those "geniuses" at TheBus realize how many UH students either live or visit Waikiki?

The #4 buses going from Waikiki to UH are MEGA-CROWDED in the mornings!  Many of them are exchange students who live in student-oriented apartments in Waikiki!

As for the UH students who live on campus, where do those students like to go on Friday and Saturday nights?

In Waikiki, DUH! 

Here's an article from the UH newspaper Ka Leo O Hawaii about the #4 route changes!
http://www.kaleo.org/news/bus-route-changes-to-affect-uh-commuters/article_def0f6c4-901f-11e1-8321-001a4bcf6878.html



“I’m very concerned about if they don’t come to Waikīkī anymore, then I need to maybe … transfer buses to come to UH,” said Sakiko Sugihara, a psychology major who lives in Waikīkī and rides the bus to school. 


If the proposed changes go through, route 4 will terminate at the McCully/Kalākaua stop, instead of going into Waikīkī as it now does. Another proposed change would hopefully make up for this: Route 13, which currently circles through the Kapahulu area, would continue on to Kaimukī High School, Kapiolani Community College, and then up University Avenue and along Dole Street. 

Even with the changes to route 13, some have reacted negatively. I have noticed how crowded that bus gets (to unhealthy levels in my opinion) and have actually requested TheBus add another bus in those peak hours,” said Paul Perretta, a community member who comes to the UH campus to do research, in an email. “Now we are told that route 4 will no longer go through Waikīkī, where many UH students have dorms – not forgetting the Makiki, Mānoa folk who work in Waikīkī.


Notice the part highlighted in green! The #4 bus gets MEGA-CROWDED in certain occassions. 

For example - Halloween!  Waikiki is where the action is on Halloween! That's where all the college students want to be on Halloween night! 

and I know from experience that the #4 bus gets EXTREMELY CROWDED on Halloween, it's so bad that the #4 bus can't even pick up any extra riders after it leaves University/Metcalf bus stop! And those bus stops after University/Metcalf are FILLED  with TONS of people who are ANGRY that they waited so long for a bus, and the bus doesn't stop for them because IT'S CROWDED AS HELL!

 This also happens whenever there are other night events in Waikiki, like the Pro Bowl block party, Aloha Week Hoolaulea, and much more! The #4 buses are OVER CAPACITY and skipping bus stops that have a lot of people waiting!

And the geniuses at TheBus want to cut off bus services that goes from UH to Waikiki?

THEY SHOULD BE ADDING MORE BUSES ON THAT ROUTE!

I know, money is the issue! But I know from experience that the areas served by B-express and the #4 bus (ESPECIALLY going from UH to Waikiki) has TONS OF CUSTOMERS!  

Private business go where there are TONS OF CUSTOMERS! That's not where the routes should be eliminated!

Sunday, April 29, 2012

2 decades since the LA riots

2 decades ago, the city of Los Angeles has seen its greatest chaos ever.

The chaos was in response to the Not Guily verdict on 3 of the police officers who were involved in beating Rodney King!

Rodney King was an African-American male who was driving drunk on March 1991. He was not co-operating with police, and he was brought down. What happened after was video-taped and shown worldwide.



image from George Holliday's videocamer
 Rodney King beaten by police
 

Rodney King was already down on the ground, when 4 cops continued to beat him with night-sticks. He was hit in the head with a foot and a baton when he was NO LONGER RESISTING ARREST!

Because Rodney King was African-American and the 4 cops who beat him were European-Americans, this came with additional controversies that usually don't get discussed if the cops gave brutal beatdown to a suspect of their own race. 

While Rodney King was not the perfect role model, the video-taped beat-down gave many African-Americans bad memories of not only Jim Crow (and all the police brutality used against the civil rights movement) but the other negative experiences they had with European-Americans in power!

Even decades after the civil rights movement, many African-Americans felt like they were treated in a rude manner by European-American cops.

And in Los Angeles, the police were trained to be very aggressive!  That city had many gangs, and the cops were trained to never back down.

And in that type of job, it is easy to become paranoid, and easy to snap at anyone who doesn't automatically submit to your authority!

And with that, many African-Americans and Latinos felt that the LAPD was a "white, Anglo" occupying force, just like how the Spanish occuppied Mexico, like how the Europeans occupied South Africa, or like how Israelis occupied the West Bank.

It was an atmosphere that was ready to explode.

And explode it did on April 29, 1992!

The trial (which took place in a mostly European-American community of Simi Valley) was expected to return a guilty verdict on the 4 cops accussed of beating Rodney King.

However, at the trial, the defense attorneys emphasized Rodney King's misbehavior before the beating. So 3 of the cops got a Not Guilty verdict. The other cop, Lawrence Powell, who gave the most severe hits towards Rodney King, had a hung jury.

The people in South Central Los Angeles ( a low-income community with large numbers of Latinos and African-Americans) were outraged!

The cops got away with it!  If that's how it's going to be, then the mentality was No Justice, No Peace!

While many church members wanted a peaceful response, others in the community didn't want to hear it. They wanted war!

They started breaking things, and damaging property. They wanted retaliation against anyone who was "white".

The cops tried to intervene! However, the police were outnumbered and THE POLICE BACKED DOWN! They left South Central!  [so much for "let the police protect us"]

All this was being recorded LIVE on TV! And it encouraged more chaos throughout the city!

Many in the crowd were throwing rocks and other objects at cars passing by!

The most infamous one was when a group of African-American rioters pulled a European-American truck driver (Reginald Denny)  out of his truck, beat him up and throw a big rock at his head!



http://bigalblog.wordpress.com/2010/07/12/big-als-take-on-oakland-riots-la-riots-and-media-dont-let-history-repeat-itself/
 Reginald Denny getting attacked


It was seen as "retaliation against the white man", even though Reginald Denny had NOTHING to do with corrupt LAPD officers that people were supposed to be protesting against.

However, it wasn't only "white people" that were getting attacked by violent mobs.

There were attacks on Latino and Asian immigrants as well!

Even though some Latino immigrants were attacked, that didn't stop Latinos from various parts of the city to join in the chaos,damage property and loot stores. By the end of the riots, the Latinos were the majority of the rioters, outnumbering the African-American rioters.

But the Asians really got victimized throughout the riots.

While the riots were "supposed to be about" Rodney King, the LAPD, and "the white power structure", a lot of it got taken out on the Asians in the areas, especially the Koreans.

The Koreans had plenty of stores throughout South Central LA. Many Korean store owners had trouble relating to their African-American and Latino customers. Many of those customers felt they were being profilled and treated rudely by the Koreans, who treated them as they were "shoplifting". And Korean culture (unlike American culture) doesn't emphasize smiling to strangers. Koreans also didn't believe in putting objects in other people's hands. This reminded African-American customers of Jim Crow laws (which prevented African-Americans from using the same facilities as European-Americans) They already fought against that, and they weren't going to let another group do that to them again!

And in a case that resembled this year's Trayvon Martin case,  a Korean store owner confronted an African-American teenage girl Latasha Harlins about "stealing the orange juice", Harlins just basically gave in and said "I'm going to pay for it". Instead of just accepting the payment and moving on, Soon Ja-Du kept yelling "you were stealing" and pulled Harlins hair. Harlins fought back. Soon Ja-Du shot Harlins in the head!


photo from wikipedia
Latasha Harlins


That incident was videotaped!

Other African-Americans already complained about Soon Ja Du before the incident. She was seen as rude and racist!

And to make matters worse, Soon Ja Du was found guilty BUT GOT NO JAIL TIME! The judge was so worried about "this little Korean lady's saftey in the prison". What about Latasha Harlins' safety?

It felt as that judged valued Asian life over African-American life!

 LA Times
Soon Ja Du
got NO JAIL TIME for killing Latasha Harlins



Things were about to get worse!

Rapper Ice Cube  made a song titled back in 1991 "Black Korea", in which he complained about Korean store owners and threatened to "burn your stores right down to a crisp".

In the 1992 riots, that's exactly what happened. While many stores in general got looted, the Korean-owned stores got it even worse, they got burned down and their employees brutally attacked!

The police weren't around. As I mentioned earlier, the police backed down.

So the Korean store owners had their shotguns in case more looters came to start trouble!  The Koreans weren't afraid to stand their ground! After all, no one was going to help them, so they helped themselves!



This was shown LIVE on TV!  This showed that

#1  - THE POLICE WILL NOT ALWAYS BE AROUND TO HELP YOU WHEN YOU NEED THEM THE MOST

#2 - In these emergencies, YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN

#3- It's good to have a few weapons ready


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Life since the LA riots

In the last 2 decades, certain things changed while others stayed the same!

South Central LA is a still a poverty-stricken area, though the gang violence isn't as extreme as it used to be!

Also, South Central LA, which once had an African-American majority, is now mostly populated by Latinos (mostly Mexicans and Central Americans).

Crenshaw & Leimert Park are still mostly African-American communities, but Watts, Compton and Inglewood are now mostly Latino!

Like the Trayvon Martin case in Florida, there has been some violence between African-American and Latinos in South Central, ranging from fights in schools to racial hate crimes. However, the majority people in both groups are not involved in those rivalries.

(Just like here in Hawaii -- there had been incidents between Polynesians, Filipinos, Micronesians and Vietnamese, but not everyone in those groups get involved. In fact, some even make friends [and even babies] across ethnic lines)

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As for the LAPD, the department that was being seen as "too aggressive" before the LA Riots, was then as "too passive" during the LA riots. The cops were so tough when they outnumber suspects were all of a sudden going soft and escaped when they got outnumbered by angry crowds during the first few hours of the LA riots.  This made things as the criminals knew no one could stop them, except for a few property owners brave enough to get their shotguns and shoot looters!

And you would think the LAPD chief, Darryl Gates, who was known as the "take no crap" guy would be on top of this! But instead of taking leadership, he went off to a rich-part of town for a previously scheduled political fundraiser ON THE NIGHT WHEN THE CITY WAS BURNING!      Gates went from "hero to zero" and resigned in disgrace!

LA Times
Darryl Gates
negligent LAPD chief during the riots


There was the Rampart scandal a few years after the riots, in which cops were accussed of planting evidence and abusing suspects. Unlike the Rodney King case, however, it wasn't just "whites oppressing non-whites" since African-American and Latino cops were also involved!

However, since then, LAPD has been through many changes. There has been less emphasis on aggressive, military style policing. There also has been more emphasis on recruiting women and minorities to the police force!

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How likely is the next riot 

It's been 2 decades since the LA riots occurred!  That means a whole new generation has grown up with no memory of that event.

It would be hard for the younger generation to fully comprehend the social atmosphere of that time!

Back in 1992, racial minorities were still in a state of rebellion against "white society".  They still felt like they weren't treated as equals even decades after Jim Crow was over. 

However, in 2012, the US has a president with African ancestry -  Barack Obama!

It's hard to rebel against "white society" if your president is black, along with the US already having black/brown mayors, CEOs, secretary of states, attorney generals, and pop icons loved worldwide!

And a whole generation of Americans of all races have grown up under the supervision of non-white teachers, security guards, principals and bosses. 

Inter-racial dating and marriages have increased nationwide, and the US is becoming a much more diverse society with more Latinos, Asians, Middle Easterners, and others being part of the social fabric.

These days,  it's hard to scream "fight the power" like Public Enemy was known for back in the late 1980s. Ice-T, once famous for his "cop killer" song is now known as playing a cop on "Law & Order". And Ice Cube (who once said "f--- the police" and threaten to burn Korean stores) is now more famous for acting in children's movies and other mainstream films.
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However, there is still pockets of resentment against Latino and Muslim immigration. If there is more restrictive laws that permit officers to question people's immigration status, obviously, some cops WILL go over the line and use that as an excuse to intimidate those of Latino or Muslim ancestry.  These things can add up, and those feeling like they've been picked on by society could rebel with anger. Just like LA 1992.

And as this year's Trayvon Martin case has shown, many African-Americans feel as they have been profiled and treated as "suspicious" just for walking and existing.

 Also, as I have mentioned, there has been some gang rivalries split along racial lines.

And many European-Americans feel resentful about being blamed for slavery, segregation and a whole bunch of ills that occurred way before our current young adults were even born!

However, society in general has matured within the last 2 decades. There is a strong anti-racism movement out there! Those who made rude racial jokes get severe backlash everytime!  People are more careful now in respecting other cultures. Even after 9/11, anti-Muslim bigots are usually laughed at instead of respected by the general pop culture!

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And notice that since then,  in the past 2 decades, there has NOT been large-scale racial riots in the USA! (the exception being Cincinnati in 2001)

Notice that  cities once famous for 1960s riots (Detroit, Philly, Newark, Chicago, New York) or even 1980's riots (Miami) DID NOT HAVE a large-scale riot in DECADES!

Meanwhile, pretty much every European city has had large scales within the last decade!

Some of those riots are racial riots (ie Amsterdam 2004, Paris 2005, London 2011, ), while others are related to political issues (ie Athens, Madrid, etc).


In Europe rioters loot with impunity whenever police aren't around.

But after the 1992 LA riots, most Americans have learned from the well-armed  Koreans store owners!
The lesson is  "if you loot, we shoot". You destroy stores, DON'T BE SURPRISED if the owners are ready for battle, ready to shoot you down! 

Criminals may be mean, but they're not stupid!  They know better than to start trouble with someone ready to shoot back! That's why Americans haven't been rioting lately. It's just useless destroying stuff when property owners have the right to shoot you!  That's what "stand your ground" is. Police won't always be around to save you, and when they aren't you're on your own! So-called "progressives" need to learn this instead of hating on "stand your ground" laws!

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Where was I when I first heard of the LA riots

Back in those days, people first hear of events from TV news. Nowadays, it's from Facebook and Twitter!

At the time, I was a 5th grader. While I was still a kid, I was already informed about current events, history and geography.

It was about 3:30pm (Hawaii time), when my uncle from LA called! It was probably a 1/2 hour after I came home from school.

My uncle mentioned about fires, and he said "you're not watching the news?"  It was 3pm Hawaii time, I usually watched the evening news at 5pm.  Still too early!

(remember, this was before the Internet became a popular thing in people's homes)

My  older brother came home not long after, and I mentioned about my uncle's phone call. My brother already heard about the riot going on.

And all night, and the days after, that's all you see on TV --- buildings burning, stuff being destroyed! All you heard was "no justice, no peace".

This was talked about on TV, news magazines, documentaries, rap CDs,  for months and years after it occurred!  It was seen as a sign of "America still had a long way to go on race relations"!

It's now 2 decades later, and it seems most of society has forgotten about it! While it is good to "move on with life", I still think it's important to remember the tragedies of the past and learn from them.

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Good References

Check out the book "Official Negligence" by Lou Cannon. That book discussed the events leading up to and occurring during the LA riots!


Monday, April 23, 2012

April tragic anniversaries

April is known to be a spring month, after the dreaded cold winters are over and before the hot summer begins.  It would sound like a month for optimism.

However, April is also a month in which some of most tragic moments of the 1990's occurred.

The 1990's was when was growing from a boy into a young man, so these incidents have left some imprints on my mind.

1) Oklahoma City bombing

On April 19, 1995, a federal building in Oklahoma has blown up due to a car bomb.

photo from Wikipedia

It was first suspected to be done by Muslim terrorists, since it was only a few years earlier when Muslim terrorist used a car bomb on the World Trade Center.

However, it turned out to committed by Timothy McVeight and Terry Nichols, 2  European-Americans whose grievances had NOTHING to do with Radical Islam.

Their grievances had more to do with the federal government's and the militaristic tactics of its many agencies including the FBI, ATF, CIA and the US Marshalls.. The most well known incidents involving federal agents in the early 1990s' inlcuded incidents at Ruby Ridge (Idaho) and at the Branch Davidian's compound in Waco, Texas.

In fact, the explosion was timed to occur at the 2 year anniversary of the Waco incident.

However, the Oklahoma City bombing targeted many innocent people who work in federal agencies that had nothing to with Ruby Ridge or Waco incidents.  That incident damaged the reputation of anti-government activists out there.

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Where was I when I found out about the Oklahoma City bombing?

I was in 8th grade at the time. I was at my grandma's house early in the summer, getting ready to go to school. My grandma mentioned the incident, but she said the wrong city (she first said it was Kansas City, but it was Oklahoma City). Then I saw the news reports of the damaged buildings and the emergency crew.

I don't remember where I learned about the Ruby Ridge incident since I don't think it was taped live.

But I sure remembered the Waco incident involving the Branch Davidians. The feds had a standoff near the compound for multiple weeks, and it was big news. There were allegations of sexual abuse in the compound, however the ATF got involved over allegations of illegal weapons at the site!

The federal agents waited outside, trying to negotiate with the Branch Davidians into surrender. When that didn't work, the feds went in and there was a shootout. But really got the attention to the people watching the incident LIVE on TV was the compound going into flames.


photo from wikipedia


It has never been proven who started the fire, but that imagery was enough to anger many people against the federal government for it's perceived over-reaction.


2) Columbine shootings

On April 20, 1999, two students at a Columbine High School (Littleton, Colorado) went inside with multiple weapons and started shooting at other students and staff at the school.



Image from Wikipedia

This wasn't the first time there was a shooting at a US high school. There already had gang-shootings at inner-city high schools for years. And for the few years before Columbine, there have been other school shootings at rural schools in the US.

However, Columbine was the worst of them all, with 13 dead, 24 injured.

Also, this incident happened at an upper-class suburb whereas previous incidents involving students killing each other were usually lower-income students at urban or rural schools.

So, the Columbine incident really freaked out many parents who thought that living in upper-class suburbs would be safe for their children.

But nowhere is totally safe!

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This incident also put special attention to the issue of high school bullying.

The 2 shooters involved in the Columbine shooting  have been known to be targets of bullies.

Now they got their revenge!

This was a wake-up call! Bullying isn't just a "rite of passage". The mentality now is "f*** with us for too long, you're going to get it"

ANYBODY (including myself) WHO EITHER WORK AT SCHOOLS (or EVEN JUST A PARENT) need to watch how they react to the students under them! You NEVER KNOW WHEN THEY ARE GOING TO SNAP!

Banning guns isn't the answer. Those kids could've EASILY stole a car, drive it around and run people over!  And remember, in prisons (where inmates are not supposed to have weapons) people make weapons of anything!

And expecting children and teens to "just figure out how to solve problems on their own"  is DANGEROUSLY NAIVE!

If they only learn to solve their problems from their peers --- GUESS WHAT?  You're only preparing the kids for a PRISON environment.

That's how kids from broken homes learn to join the gangsta lifestyle!

And that's why kids who are outcasted feel "the adults don't want to help us, F*** IT, let's solve it ourselves" which led to the Columbine shooting!

This reminds me of this one Educational Assistant at one middle school I worked at. Her name was Ms Pili Sika (I'm using real names)! She actually said "if someone picks on you, just fight them and they'll leave you alone".

THAT IS SO STUPID!

This stuff of "fight the bully, he/she will stop"?

THAT STUFF HAPPENS IN MOVIES!

REAL LIFE IS NOT A MOVIE!

In real life, you start a fight with someone, winning that fight WILL NOT BE THE END!

In real life, fights are NOT one-on-one, it's you against your enemies and his/her friends, siblings, cousins, etc.

THAT is HOW GANG RIVLARIES START and ONCE IT STARTS, IT IS HARD TO STOP!


If someone is picking on you and his/her support system outnumber yours, fighting is NOT worth it! Find an adult you trust and use the legal system. If the school won't help, you could sue the school and use the blogs as your ally!


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Where was I when the Columbine shootings occurred?

I was a senior in high school when that occurred.  So I was almost the same age as the killers and the victims.

As I mentioned earlier, there were other school shootings in the previous years, so when I first heard about Columbine, it didn't stand out in my mind at first. It was only after additional news reports of the death toll, and the additional controversies over bullying, gun control, gothic music, violent video games and moral values that Columbine stood out more!

I could definitely relate to the some of the anger that the shooters might have. But I NEVER wanted to put innocent people in harm's way! Plus, it's not like I hated everyone. I got along with most of my classmates.

However, like everyone else, there are fools that I don't get along with! It is UNREALISTIC to even expect anyone to get along with all their classmates! Especially in large, urban schools like mine.

But I don't need a gun to take care of them. I just waited my time, and used my words to expose the troublemakers on my blog posts (ie. http://pablowegesend.blogspot.com/2012/03/exposed-to-light.html).  And if anyone wants to give me unsolicited "high road" advice, check out http://pablowegesend.blogspot.com/2012/03/either-pick-side-mediate-or-get-out-of.html before telling me anything.  I never expressed any thoughts on violent revenge, I just have the nerve to just tell it like it is!


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A lot of people listen to hardcore music and play violent video games, but they don't act out those scenarios in real life! Most teens know the line between fantasy and reality!

As for music, teenagers ARE NOT MINDLESSLY listening to their favored style of music. I was a teenager during the 90's, when the rock and rap music was MORE VIOLENT than the popular stuff now! Many of us were thinking of  controversial artists (like Marilyn Manson, Slayer, Ice Cube, Eazy-E, etc.) and think "I like this song from them, but on this other song - they went too far" 

I'm sure the same is true for fans of comedians and radio talk-show hosts! (ie. I liked it when [Chris Rock, Rush Limbaugh, etc] said this, but they went too far, when they said this)


Plus, as I mentioned in a recent post, listening to anti-police songs as a teen isn't going to make you a cop killer. In fact, I'd say THE MAJORITY of cops born between 1975 and 1990 grew up listening to anti-police songs from gangsta rappers. It is UNREALISTIC that think that cops of that age would only grow up listening to gentle music from Kenny G or Celine Dion!

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The anti-Muslim bigots have been screaming for more racial profling since 9/11.

Sure, Muslim terrorists have been causing a lot of damage.

But they had ZERO involvement with the Oklahoma City bombing nor the Columbine shooting.

And those from similar backgrounds and similar grievances as  the Oklahoma bomber and the Columbine shooter  ----------- what makes you think they won't hijack a plane, blow up a subway or commit more massive shootings!

Racially harrassing Middle Easterners will not prevent any of that stuff!

Sometimes, people just snap and race got nothing to do with it!

3) The LA Riots

Another April tragedy of the 1990's.

I will discuss this in a later blog post. I'll try post it on April 29th, since that day will be officially 2 decades since the riots!

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Ozzie Guillen and the Freedom of Speech

It's early in the baseball season.

And the Miami Marlins have started to play in their new stadium.

It is supposed to be a time of great optimism.

However, the Marlin's manager Ozzie Guillen, already notorious for blunt statements, has gotten more notorious.

photo from ESPN
Ozzie Guillen

http://www.salon.com/2012/04/10/guillens_pro_castro_candor/singleton/
There’s not much reason to doubt that baseball manager Ozzie Guillen admires Fidel Castro. He said so five years ago in an interview with Men’s Journal. When asked to name the toughest man he knew, Guillen replied, “Fidel Castro. He’s a bull—- dictator and everybody’s against him, and he still survives, has power. Still has a country behind him. Everywhere he goes, they roll out the red carpet. I don’t admire his philosophy; I admire him.’’
No one cared about that macho thought because Guillen was skipper of the Chicago White Sox at the time. As the newly hired manager of the Miami Marlins, Guillen repeated the notion to Time last week–”I respect Fidel Castro,” he said. “You know why? A lot of people have wanted to kill Fidel Castro for the last 60 years, but that [expletive] is still there”–and he found himself on the brink of unemployment.

Remember, Guillen said this as a manager of a Miami sports team!

Miami has plenty of Cuban-Americans, a large number of whom ran for their lives  after Fidel Castro took over Cuba!

In other words, Guillen insulted his team's fan base! He insulted his customers!

For that he got suspended for 5 games!

I would have fired that guy ON THE SPOT! Many Miami Cuban-Americans want him fired!
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However, there are some fools out there who say "Ozzie Guillen has the Freedom of Speech, how dare his critics want him fired!

One of those fools is Dave Zirin, a radical left-wing sports pundit who works at the radical left-wing magazine The Nation

http://www.thenation.com/blog/167303/big-trouble-little-havana-perilous-politics-ozzie-guillen


Let’s leave aside the rather glaring irony that the politicians, sports commentators and Cuban exiles want to show their love of freedom by taking Guillen’s job for the crime of exercising free speech
But this issue is bigger than Guillen and it’s bigger than Cuban exiles who dream of returning to a smoldering “free Havana,” with Castro’s head on a pike. It’s bigger than the petty hypocrisies of those who stand for freedom by denying it for others

Look at this nonsense of "Cuban exiles want to show their love of freedom by taking Guillen’s job for the crime of exercising free speech"


The Cuban exiles ARE NOT asking that Guillen be put in prison for his pro-Castro comments!  They are asking that he be fired!

Just as if you were a customer and a retail worker said "you look fat in that dress", you want that worker fired, right?  Even if all that retail worker did was use the wrong words!

And that retail worker WOULD GET FIRED if the managers find out!


Freedom of Speech WAS NEVER about protecting privilege of employment when you say stupid things!


Freedom of Speech DOES NOT PROTECT YOU FROM CRITICISM!

So Ozzie Guillen had the Freedom of Speech to say good things about Fidel Castro. And I got the Freedom of Speech to call him a "sack of stuff you wouldn't dare eat!"


Freedom of Speech is a 2-way street!



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Dave Zirin, being a Radical Left-winger, takes the issue of Fidel Castro WAY TOO LIGHTLY!


Dave Zirin
photo from the Nation
Dave Zirin,
the man who takes Castro's reign of terror lightly



Radical Leftists love to say crap like "yeah Castro tortures people, but that's minor stuff! He's so great because he brought socialized health care to Cuba"

These Radical Left wingers tend to be the same folks who whine about President Bush being a "torturer" and a "war mongerer"! Nevermind that neither Kanye West nor the Dixie Chicks were imprisoned or tortured for their criticism of President Bush! And there was no machine guns used on anti-war protests during Bush's presidency! The critics of Fidel Castro were not so lucky!


And the Radical Left are the same folks who get angry when someone says good things about Chilean fascist dictator Augusto Pinochet's free-market policies!

Argue what you want about socialized medical care systems. However, Canada, the United Kingdom, and Sweden have such systems through a democratic process! They didn't have people escaping for their lives like what happened when Fidel Castro took over Cuba!

And to be fair, the United States, India, Botswana and Turkey were all able to introduce a more free-market economic system through a democratic process. It didn't  have people escaping for their lives like what happened when Augusto Pinochet took over Chile!
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And now back to Dave Zirin, he has also made a vicious smear on the anti-Castro Cubans in Miami

http://www.thenation.com/blog/167303/big-trouble-little-havana-perilous-politics-ozzie-guillen
But what’s crazier? Guillen’s views on Cuba or the fact that an aging coterie of people who mourn for the strong hand of Fulgencio Batista control the political debate in South Florida?


Fulgencio Batista was the dictator of Cuba before Fidel Castro took over! There was some corruption going on during Batista's reign! However, under Batista, there WAS NOT tons of Cubans escaping for their lives!

When Castro took over, there were people who thought "hey, maybe things would be better now that Batista is gone"

But Castro was WORSE than Batista! He was a communist, who confiscated all property from private ownership. Those who publicly objected were tortured, imprisoned, and even murdered!

Even former Castro allies who took "hey Castro, you're going too far" got tortured!

A commenter gave it straight to Zirin

"We’ve seen rallies, demonstrations and walkouts at dozens upon dozens of high schools in Florida alone. Even more remarkably, this resistance has found expression in the world of sports. An impressive group of NBA players from Carmelo Anthony to Steve Nash to the leaders of the NBA Players Association have spoken out and called for justice. " -Dave Zirin on the Travon Martin incident.

Dave Zirin, pretend that George Zimmerman was named Fidel Castro. Now, pretend that instead of killing one innocent person, he killed thousands. Your previous articles seem to indicate that you support those who speak out against injustice. Perhaps you should try a little consistency. Otherwise people might get the wrong idea and start to believe that you're just an apologist for human rights violators.
Another thing, my family was exiled to this country long ago by the bloody Castro regime. We're proud to be Americans and respect this country's institutions. Please don't slander Cuban-Americans by trying to insinuate that they're yearning to substitute one dictator for another. It's untrue, it's a cheap shot and it's unbecoming of you based on some of the better articles I've read of yours in the past. Every American of Cuban descent that I've ever met (granted I'm not from Miami) has spoken of their his or her desire to see democracy take hold on the island. Were you attempting to make a point that the current dictator was better than the prior or that Cuban Americans lack grounds to oppose Castro's dictatorship? I'd like to know.
Now, as for Ozzie. He can say whatever he wants. I like the guy. But this was one of the dumbest PR moves I've ever seen because he broke one of the cardinal rules in business: don't insult the customer!
And another commenter said this to Zirin

<< an aging coterie of people who mourn for the strong hand of Fulgencio Batista control the political debate in South Florida?>>
Do you know how many people who fought against Batista and initially supported the revolution against him are in Miami today??? That is not including those that have been purged via state violence, torture, intimidation, or murder.

Just because you oppose one totalitarian dictatorship, does not mean you yearn for whatever came before.
Under your reasoning, Trotsky was a Czarist, Robespierre a Monarchist, etc., I have agreed with many if not most of your blog posts, but in this case you are obviously completely ignorant on the topic.

Yes, like I mentioned, many former Batista opponents who thought "maybe Castro might be better" ended up running for their lives when they found out who Castro really was!

That Dave Zirin would insult those people shows want a punk he truly is!

It takes a certain type of punk to mock victims of torture! Dave Zirin is that punk!

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I remember listening to ESPN Radio's talk show host Colin Cowherd on this issue!

photo from ESPN
Collin Cowherd


He reminded listeners that Castro was someone who tortured thousands of people! He reminded his listeners that a lot of Miami Cuban-American had relatives who were TORTURED and KILLED by Castro's agents!

And that it is human to be very emotional against SOMEONE WHO KILLED AND TORTURED YOUR FAMILY!  For the Miami Cubans, that someone is Fidel Castro!

Saturday, March 31, 2012

Fashion shouldn't get you killed!

For decades, teenagers like to portray themselves as the superstars who portray the "dangerous" lifestyle.

In the past, many teenagers imitated the style and the swagger of musicians like the Rolling Stones, Kiss, Guns & Roses, and Slayer!

While those teenagers imitated those musicians, they usually grew out of it, and go on to lead at least 90% honorable lives.


Trayvon Martin named referred to himself in one of his social-network pages as "No Limit N_______a", which was named after  for No Limit Records (the record label) and No Limit Souljahz (members affiliated with that record label).  No Limit was led by Master P, and had members like Sillk the Shocker, C-Murder, Mystikal, Mia X, Fiend, Kane & Abel and Mercedes.  They also made hits with other artists like Snoop Dogg and E-40!

Because Martin called himself a "No Limit N_______" and had  some photos posing with a gangsta swagger, many right-wing extremists have been portraying Martin as some kind of dangerous monster, when in reality, he was just minding his own business when confronted by George Zimmerman for "looking suspicious". Zimmerman killed Martin and claimed he was "standing his ground" when in reality, he started the fight.


Joe Scarborough, a former Republican Congressperson and now a conservative talk-show host, made some good points about this.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/03/30/joe-scarborough-trayvon-martin-conservative-websites_n_1392019.html

On Friday, he excoriated some conservative websites for defending Zimmerman and questioning Martin's innocence. He said that he found their behavior "disgusting."
"Why is it that some on the right are actually taking this up as a cause?" Scarborough asked. "As National Review said almost immediately after it happened, this has nothing to do with gun rights, this has nothing to do with the Second Amendment, this has nothing to do with stand your ground laws, this has nothing to do with the NRA. This has everything to do with a guy that's trying to play security cop, who is unhinged, who chased down and shot a 17-year-old kid armed with Skittles and iced tea.'"
Scarborough warned that conservative sites should follow the National Review and "not take this up as a cause." He took issue with their portrayal of Martin in particular.
He said, "some racist websites, but also sadly some fairly mainstream websites are actually going into Trayvon Martin’s social media pages, be it Twitter or MySpace, and they're trying to find ominous looking pictures while skipping over pictures of him holding up a birthday cake smiling, him fishing with his dad, him standing outside proudly of his home dressed in a tux ready to go to prom."
"This is beneath contempt," Scarborough railed. "These people on the far right are being fools to try to make this a political issue.”

The parts I highlighted are very important.

Yeah, Martin had photos showing a tough-guy side of him.

In other words, pretty much acting like about 90% of teenagers out there!

I mean, most teenagers (black, white, brown, yellow, rich, poor, whatever) want to impress through their peers with  social network pages with pictures of them sticking middle fingers, flexing their biceps, holding fake weapons, and imitating the fashion of hardcore rock or rap artists!

Most of it is Just Image and Acting!

Most of them are smart enough to know NOT to act like that at a job interview, or at a church! And they sure are NOT acting like that in front of their grandparents!

Most of them will just grow out of it, and go on to lead 90% honorable lives as adults.

After all, even most cops under 40 were once fans of NWA, Ice-T, and 2pac who made anti-police songs!

 (what.... did you think cops who grew up in the late 80's through the 2000's were only listening to children's songs & smooth jazz?)

And Ice-T later portrayed a police officer on "Law and Order"! And NWA member Ice Cube is now more known as that guy from the children's movie "Are We There Yet?"

And 2pac, even though he had a gangsta swagger and a violent temper, he also made songs sympathizing with single mothers ("Keep your head up" ,"Dear Mama"), romantic love songs ("Do 4 love") and expressed hope for unity between African-Americans and Mexican-Americans ("To Live and Die in LA").

Most people have a positive side and a negative side. It's just that 2pac was more honest about it than the most of us!

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TV reporter Geraldo Rivera had some controversy over his comments on Trayvon Martin's fashion sense when he get confronted and killed by Zimmerman.

http://www.salon.com/2012/03/23/hoodies_dont_kill/  

Rivera's controversial words highlighted in pink!

No one black, brown or white can honestly tell me that seeing a kid of color with a hood pulled over his head doesn’t generate a certain reaction,” he writes. “Sometimes scorn, often menace.” And maybe sometimes, oh, that’s my neighbor Trayvon. Rivera assumes that casual sportswear makes the man, that it dehumanizes a dark-skinned kid into a stereotype from “crime scene surveillance tapes.” 
Rivera, as the parent of a teen, calls this a “teachable moment.” “I am begging parents of kids in Trayvon’s vulnerable demographic to heed my politically incorrect approach to this story,” he explains. “If you dress like a hoodlum eventually some schmuck is going to take you at your word.” It may be a well-intentioned warning: the kind of thing women have heard for decades about the length of their skirts. The only difference is that in one case, the chastisement is not to dress like a victim, and the other is to not dress like a perp.

Of course many parents want their kids to dress themselves in a "proper manner", so that the kids represent themselves as someone "civilized".

I mean, if I was a parent, and I noticed my teenaged kids starting to wear all blue or all red, a part of me will think of it as a warning sign! In fact, I remembered from working at Central Middle School, that all red items will be confiscated since that is seen as representing the Bloods from Mayor Wright's Housing, which is in that school's district.

Also, many parents start to worry if their daughter start wearing skimpy clothes, worried that some males will take it the wrong way and would harass and even raper her.

However, when it comes to rape, THE BLAME SHOULD BE ON THE RAPIST, ........NOT on the victim and her sexy clothes.

And for murder, THE BLAME SHOULD BE ON THE KILLER,  ......... NOT  on the victim's hoodie or colored bandana.

However, from the same article that I quoted earlier

No, he wasn’t dressed like a hoodlum. He was dressed like a kid. Yeah, sometimes hoodlums wear hoodies. So does just about every teenager in America. Let’s be clear — Martin was not swaggering around with a ski mask over his face and a knife in his hand. He was a kid who had thrown on a jacket on a rainy night. He was not, as Geraldo says, “wearing a costume that is really a sign that says ‘shoot me,’” any more than a woman in heels is wearing a sign that says “rape me.”

And that led to the website filled with Geraldo Rivera wearing a hoodie.

http://geraldoinahoodie.tumblr.com/


Geraldo in a hoodie
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Geraldo Rivera wearing a hoodie, something he said non-white teens shouldn't wear!